Hello.
Though it may seem that your symptoms are due to Bipolar Disorder, these are not sufficient for a diagnosis of Bipolar Disorder. You may have to consult a mental health professional (psychiatrist/psychologist), for a complete evaluation and diagnosis. Your father's symptoms could be due to personality issues as well as possibly bipolar.
These could be features of mixed episodes of Bipolar Disorder. But you need a professional consultation. You might need to take medication and psychotherapy for a long term benefit.
Take care.
Abhijeet Deshmukh, MD
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