Well, after four years of being together
and from being together for the first 3
months of our pregnancy. He always 'acted'
as if he was happy when we were together.
He told me he wanted to break up with me
because his parents hate me.
AT first he was so excited. He went
everywhere and told everyone. He was
smiling and cheerful... He went to all of
the doctors appointments for the first
three months.
He went to live with his parents. I just
don't get it he was so happy. Now today he
said he's not happy about it at all. He
does have depression- I just never know..
He's also going to a treatment center.. He
will be there when I go into labour. I am
so scared.. I always thought he was my
best friend and if everything in life goes
wrong well atleast I still have him. Ya
know. He's a totally different person.
He treats me differently. I just am trying
to be happy about this baby and him and
his family have turned against me. His
mom says its 'horrible' timing- Why didn't
you use a condom. His brother says he
doesn't care. His sister in law says its
unfortunite.
Why is everyone turning away from this
little life. Why are they all rejecting
this baby in me. It just makes me so sad
because.. I know he would be a good dad.
Since hes left me he doesn't want to know
ANYTHING about the baby. He doesn't want
updates he doesn't ask how I am feeling.
He doesn't call.
He said he wants to meet him/her. Is it
right to abandon me and make my pregnancy
a stressful hell Then when the baby comes
its all rainbows and butterflys.
I love him so much.. I just dont know what
to do. HE oviously hates me because I am
pregnant.
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butterflykisses1234
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Joined: 20 Apr 2008 Posts: 4
Posted: 04-20-08 19:04pm
It's his problem not yours. You need to
focus on having a healthy pg and not about
what is going on with him. I have a friend
whose husband left her after she had
recurrent miscarriages. Now she has no man
and no baby. At least you have your kid.
That's what's important.
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StacyHoll
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Posted: 04-21-08 20:57pm
How far along was she when she lost her
baby?
Sometimes its hard just to put it all
behind me. Easier said then done! Thats
forsure. I definitly am focusing on all of
the positives.
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butterflykisses1234
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Apr 2008 Posts: 4
Posted: 04-21-08 22:26pm
She had multiple miscarriages...5 all
together. The worst part is that he
forced her to get an abortion the first
time she got pg. Then when HE was ready to
have kids, she kep miscarrying. He was an
unsupportive jerk through the whole thing.
Then he left her because she wasn't able
to have kids and now she is alone with no
kids and feeling guilty bc she killed the
one kid she could have had. All bc she
fell in love with a selfish problem. I
KNOW its hard, I just don't want you to
stress and end up losing the baby. You
nee to think about yourself and be GOOD to
yourself right now. Stay positive and if
you have supportive family or friends then
lean on them. GL
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StacyHoll
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Posted: 04-22-08 20:11pm
I am pretty far along. The doctors did say
that stress wasn't good, but it wouldn't
cause a miscarriage at this point. I am
just about 20 weeks along. I know what you
mean though. Earlier on he left me thats
when I was worried. I guess I needed
someone to talk to rather than
internalizing
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mommyglamour
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Apr 2008 Posts: 25
Posted: 05-05-08 03:17am
these forums seem like a great place to
vent and get advice and you always find
someone you can relate to. i can see how
you are so confused. it's like he did a
180 on you.
