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Q: Expected effects of first time sex !?

asked by: Judart on April 22nd, 2009

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I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time a week ago and, luckily, I felt no pain just a slight discomfort during plus no bleeding. The next day, I felt fine except a mild bloating which I thought was normal. However, the day afterwards I woke up and threw up with a fever (I gathered was unrelated as it passed the next morning?) but, presently, my lower abdomen is feeling bloated/tight and feeling nauseas but that could be because I had that sick day so still tender.
We used a condom and he 'pulled out' before he nearly came but in the end didn't so the whole 'pre-cum' worry is there for me... Just want to know whether it's expected to have bloating/tightness around the lower abdomen after sex plus perhaps nausea? Could this be me ovulating as I'm producing more white fluid? I'm a little confused and want to know whether I should see the someone. Any advice would be great Smile

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worrywart01

replied on April 22nd, 2009

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i think you're probably just stressed out...if you used a condom and pulled out before he even came close then you should have been well protected...if its a huge concern for you maybe you should consider birth control? I know for me I could barely enjoy sex w/my boyfriend(even with a condom) just bc i would stress out so much about pregnancy..and we used condoms all the time...so going on birth control really helped me relax

jb2009

replied on May 27th, 2009

New User

For what it's worth I also got bloated and got nausea about 12-24 hours after having sex the first time. I had a lot of pain the first time plus bleeding, and then for the next week had a discharge and spotting on my underwear going from lights brown initially to white. I used both a condom and birth control pills, and still got the nausea/bloating/discharge so it doesn't have to be ovulation necessarily as the pill usually prevents that, and it definitely wasn't pregnancy. If you get your period about 12 days after your bloating first started, then it could just be ovulation as the timing would be right.

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