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Expectations in my married life is killing me

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November 12th, 2010
Hi
Its just been a yr.since i have been married.Before marriage myself and my fiance sat down and had a discussion about what our expectations from each other are and so on and so forth.I told him and this is what i even tell him now that all i want from him is him to be honest,not to hide anything,always be trustworthy,to love me as much as he can and to give me all his attention.Did i ask for anything wrong?Was or is my expectations too much?Coz he is not able to accept them even now...plz advice.
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CarolineEF
replied November 13th, 2010
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Hi Torture and welcome to ehealth: No, you did not do anything wrong...A woman needs love...You are a very loving person and want to show him the depth of your sexual feelings for him...However, I see something missing...You are in pain...Pain from not feeling wanted and I believe that this is something that the two of you must resolve to move on...You both may need some help to get past this problem in your marriage...Being a woman I can walk this walk in life with you....Take care...

Caroline
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Torture
replied November 14th, 2010
Thank you Caroline for caring to read my problem and for replying to it.Yes,what you said is right,i am in too much of pain,but i still love him a lot.Is moving on the only solution?Cant there be a way to evoke all the feelings i have for him in him too??
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