I was dating a girl on and off after a very painful divorce. We were not compatible, and I guess it was nice to have a companion. needless to say she became pregnant, and we broke up early in the pregnancy because it just was not going to work out. I kept in contact with her, however I didn't want to lead on any future potential of a romantic relationship, and the truth is I am still healing over the loss of my marriage.

She is now having complications during the pregnancy and is not allowing me to be involved in doctor appoitments and let's just say that this is a very bad situation to bring a baby into. I want to be involved, but I am being shoved away by her and her family, and I fear the it's going to get worse once the baby is born permitting the baby survives after the birth. My ex is low on amniotic fluid and will be on hospital bed rest for the remaner of her pregancy. I really don't know what to do, and advise would be appriciated and follow up questions are welcome.

Thanks!