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Q: Erection / ejaculation problems
asked by: James81 on June 26th, 2008
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I find it hard to get and keep and erection. Its a lot of work to get it up and once its up i have to keep stimulating it if i stop for a few seconds it starts to go soft again. This started when i was 18. I couldnt get it up when trying to have sex with a couple of girls and i havent had sex since because of this. the same thing happens with masturbation. I have to do it for at least 30 mins othewrwise i dont ejaculate anything or just a tiny drop. Also lately when i ejaculate the semen just flows out like water. Its thin and watery as well not thick like normal.I used to get strong ejaculations where it shoots out up to my stomach or chest but now most of the time it just flows out. Its really upseting me. Also as soon as i ejaculate i go soft. Just a couple of seconds after. I dont drink or smoke or use drugs. Also i am not overweight. I know this is not normal for someone my age. Thanks for any help.

edit- i did this as an ask doctor question but of anyone else has any answers can you reply or send me a pm? Thanks.
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Dr. Nikola
replied on July 2nd, 2008
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Do you have morning erections?
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James81
replied on July 3rd, 2008
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Hi Dr Nikola

No i dont.
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Dr. Nikola
replied on July 3rd, 2008
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Lack of morning erection suggests that you might have some organic reason (vascular, nerve, endocrine, alcohol abuse...) for the erectile dysfunction.
You should consult some urologist about your problem.
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James81
replied on July 3rd, 2008
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How often am i supposed to get morning erections? I get one once a month maybe or something like that...do people normally get them every day or every other day?
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Dr. Nikola
replied on July 4th, 2008
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Once a month is too rare.
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James81
replied on July 4th, 2008
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What is normal?
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Dr. Nikola
replied on July 7th, 2008
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It is very individually but for the most young men like you morning erection is happening almost every day.
Sperm analyzes and hormonal analyses can help to find out the cause for your erectile dysfunction. us to
You should ask medical help from an urologist or internist.
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James81
replied on July 8th, 2008
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Alright thanks for the help
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James81
replied on July 10th, 2008
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It does thanks for posting it.
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Dr. Nikola
replied on July 11th, 2008
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You are welcome James81 in any time. Sorry that all I can help you is to refer you to a specialist.
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younign3191
replied on July 13th, 2008
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boyfriend of 4 years is having problems ejaculating during sex
my boyfriend of 4 years has had problems ejaculating during sex ever since we had our 6 month old son he never had problems before and sometimes he does but most the time he dont hes only 22 so i dont understand he can do it during masturbation but not everytime and has no trouble gettin an erection. before the baby we could go 6 times a day and he would ejaculate everytime. Could it be something wrong with me???
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dasdy
replied on October 7th, 2008
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I think there is a simple solution to your problem!

Have yo ueer heard of "kegel-exercises"?
Contract your PC muscle 30 sec and then relax 30 sec, do this many times a day. You will get stronger erections, I think.

Try it for a couple of months before you give up atleast. All the ppl I know who have tried it got stronger erections as a result. And the PC muscle has a connection to your G-spot (in the ass) which might make you come stronger.

Good luck!
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Daikon
replied on February 4th, 2009
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Hi

I am a 22yr old male and I am having a very similar problem. I have regular spontaneous erections as well as morning erections but have a problem maintaining either. Erections during sex and masturbation require constant stimulation or I go soft and my erections are not that hard to begin with. When I ejaculate it is usually a small quantity and my prostate feels very uncomfortable afterwards...I feel like I am putting alot of pressure on my PC muscle to maintain the erection and when I'm ejaculating. However I ejaculate within a relatively normal amount of time (about 5 minutes). This problem basically eliminates foreplay and my orgasms are really weak my girlfriend is starting to question herself.... Please help me.
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