My boyfriend is 25 years old; we are together for 1 year and 8 months. We have sex for at least 3 hours (3 to 4 days a week) and he can still have erection all the time, although he can't ejaculate almost ever. We did all the std tests we are clean. Why he can stay hard for so long and why he can't ejaculate?
I think you should not make a big deal about it that for number one.
Number two make sure he knows you are using protection
he may be worry about becoming a father with an Unmarried situation in hands.
Number 3 he may masturbate often if he does and maybe he does, he needs to stop that, don't make him to answer the question he may be embarrassed'
Number 4 he needs to try different positions, I know some guys love to feel all the sensation on the head of their penis, and the only way to get that is with the doggy position, some guys wants to be in total control and this position gives him the sensation of being the boss of the stud, I don't know what's going on in their mind.
and last but no least and please if you ask him you may loose him, he maybe gay. I hope not, but even gay guys having sex for so long they ejaculate, so I think this is not the problem I think he masturbate often that's the problem I bet ya.
Sweetmoon, you are a lucky girl. 3 hours is a long time, some of us would kill for his ability. I understand it's a curse as well. There is a 109 page thread on here about people who come in seconds.
Have him go see a urologist.
hombre - your insinuation he might be gay...was just gay. Where did that come from? I also think he would know if he came, dry or not!
What you're describing sounds a lot like Delayed Ejaculation. It has a number of different causes but not a lot of effective treatments. Take a look on the web and see if the symptoms seem to match up but definately have him evaluated by a doctor before making any assumptions about what's going on with him.
The thing to remember is that his orgasm isn't about you. You can help him reach climax but you're not in charge of it and it's not your responsibility. Your frustration or disappointment won't help him orgasm. Just enjoy the sex you have with him and and give him the same intimacy you've had before.