I think i have erectile dysfunction but I'm not sure wether I do or not. I am 17 and i have a girlfriend who is/was my first. However, there have been times when i haven't got my flip-switch to work for a few reasons. It has been 6 months I have been with her and she loves the hell out of me, it has just been that i needed to get more comfortable with her at some points. She is ok with me having problems though, as it is mostly psychological.

Here are a few reasons I think it doesn't happen. I get scared of not performing too well, but I'm vastly getting over this as I realized porn is nothing like real life. My past with girls has not been the greatest as she is my first sexual encounter after like 20 odd previous girls. Sometimes things also get too serious, i like more play and less concentration on getting an erection. Also, i know this is harsh, but sometimes my girlfriend is not too attractive, though i love her to bits, and wouldn't change her for the world. I also get scared of keeping an erection when a condom is put on, which i have never used with her, but she is on the pill (her mum made her).

So at this moment in time I am basically going in side her for like 4-5 minutes at a time as so i don't ejaculate inside her but to also get more comfortable with her. I have been gradually building up what we have been doing all this time. Is this the right method of going about it? I know i shouldn't find medical drugs like viagra to help me. Will i soon overcome this problem.