Erectile Dysfunction Problem, Due to Masturbation? Posted: 01-21-06 18:35pm
Please read this, im very scared about the
fact that I might have an impotence
problem, and I dont know much about it so
I need some help.
Im 19 years old, and I had the chance to
lose my virginity almost a year ago, and
it was with a girl I was very attracted
to, and when it came time, I couldnt
obtain an erection. I asked her to give
me oral sex but that didnt do anything for
me either. Then, I was getting oral sex
from a different girl about a month later,
and I did have an erection, but it wasnt
as hard as it should be, and I didnt feel
myself coming close to orgasm even after
about 15 minutes. She said we could have
sex so I walked 20 feet across the room to
get a condom and when I came back, my
erection was gone. Then, it happened
again when this girl was trying to give me
a handjob, although it was in a very
uncomfortable position lying on the ground
and she wasnt very good at it. Then, it
happenbed for the final time recently, and
she was giving me oral sex and nothing
happened at all, it wasnt getting hard at
all whatsoever.
So, all 4 of these times, I was drinking
alcohol. But I wasnt really that drunk,
at least not enough to explain these
problems. I was pretty attracted to all
the girls each time, and they seemed to be
good at giving oral sex so I dont think it
was that either.
I masturbate about once a day, and I was
wondering if that may have anything to do
with it, whether I do it too much, or if
my penis is used to the perfect stroke of
my hand and oral sex isnt vigorous enough
to get me hard.
I also am on concerta, which is a pill for
add.
I have never had a problem getting an
erection during masturbation, so I was
also thinking that it might have something
to do with me being nervous when im with a
girl. I was nervous that first time since
I considered the girl "out of my
league"...And I never am completely
comfortable when I am getting a sexual act
performed on me.
So, does anyone have any answers? Would
cialis help? Is it very rare for someone
so young, only 19, to have this problem,
because I thought it was only among older
men, around 40 or older.
Thanks so much for any help you can give
me.
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cd998776
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Posted: 01-22-06 13:21pm
Stay away from the pills, you're too
young. Based on your age (as much as you
are gonna not want to believe this), it's
jsut nerves. Nothing much you can do
about it, except give it time.
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sandyallen
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Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 01-22-06 13:27pm
Alcchol, stress, meds and your age does
not mix especially with your age, take it
easy too with the masterbation.
Good luck!
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cd998776
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Posted: 01-22-06 13:27pm
sandyallen
wrote:
alcchol, stress, meds and
your age does not mix especially with your
age, take it easy too with the
masterbation.
Good luck!
absolutely!
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rdb2611
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2006 Posts: 3
Posted: 01-30-06 11:51am
There are no other answers for this?
Because I have heard that certain
medications, like ritalin, concerta, and
adderall....Can give you sexual
dysfunction side effects.
I am going to see my girlfriend this
weekend and would like some tips on how I
can combat this problem, because it
happened with her last time and it was
pretty embarassing.
Are you all sure it's just nerves?
Because I felt somewhat comfortable with
her last time, and when she tried to give
me oral sex, it didnt not even come close
to starting to become erect.
Could it have anything to do with the
position I am in? Usually when I
masturbate I am sitting in a normal chair
in the same position I would be in while
doing homework or surfing the internet.
All these times when I have had this
problem, I have been lying down, and
thinking about it now, thats not a
comfortable position for me to masturbate
in so maybe I have trouble getting
erections in that position?
And also....Do you think that maybe I
should manually give myself an erection
when we are about to have sex or shes
about to give me oral, and let her
continue it?
Please help, im pretty scared and freaked
out about this, I just spent 20 minutes
trying to call my doctor about it but he
wasnt there.
