You need to wait 3 months after the risk to be tested otherwise it may not show up even if you have it. Be patient and get tested again after the 3 month period.Good Luck. Also, have a list of symptoms with you when you go to the doc and be real and totally honest with them.

hey,
if i were you i would not worry too much about the eppiglotis symptom. although that is easier said than done. i have had a possible exposure 6 monthes ago, and i have had an inflammed eppiglotis during this time- i have it slightly at the moment as a matter of fact, have had it for a couple of days. i had an acute bout of it 2 weeks after the incident along with a load of other symptoms, but it cleared up pretty quickly. iv also had two negative tests, one two weeks after the incident, and one 5 monthes after. i have another one booked for next week, which brings it over the 6 month mark.
what im trying to say is that iv had the same thing you are experiencing, but iv had a clear HIV test 5 monthes after the possible exposure, which almost certainly means i am HIV free. so it is more than likely that your symptom has nothing to do with HIV at all. you probably are ill with some other common virus. have you had a flu shot this winter??
my advise to you, is to get tested at 6 weeks. then, following your negative result, get tested without fail, at 12 weeks, then again without fail at 24 weeks. and in the mean time, do not worry too much. i know exactly how you feel. i have been pretty much suicidal with deppression at times over the last 6 monthes waiting for the courage to get tested. i know how hard it is. just try and stay healthy in your mind, and the rest will follow. eat healthily, get regular sleep, and listen to your body's needs.
try and have a good mental attitude, stay active, and try to fill your days by doing things eg working, exercising, going for walks, and living your life. i know it may sound impossible to you at the moment to take your mind away from the worry, but it is the only way to get through it untill your test. i know. iv had to do it.
good luck, and remember, just because you have symptoms that may be related to HIV, it does not mean you have it. just think, if you had not had sex with a high risk individual, and you still had these symptoms, would you still be this worried?? the answer is probably not. you mind can play horrible tricks on you. you may just have a harsh bout of flu, or some other virus.
get tested at 6 weeks, then at 12 weeks, and then at 24 weeks.
good luck mate