I was seeing a man for almost three month, it was very intense, and we spoke all of the time, but he never really made plans with me, but when we saw eachother we were in heaven, the fact that he never made plans with me, he has kids and is a devoted divorced dad, lives 20 miles away and works six days a week in a family bus, plus he is renovated his house, I understand that, but I too am a single parent working many hrs, live in NYC and multi-task, he couldn't see to want to make a date with me, but says he loves me and it will get easier for us over time, I didn't hear from him but then got a text saying he wished he was with me I was too impatient and told him that if he doesn't make a plan with me I am moving on, he said Ok you have to do what you have to do. that was all on a text message. we haven't spoken since it's been four days, I regret reacting the way I did, should I have been more patient, I was always feeling so lonely?