My boyfriend and I used to hang out all the time, He works nights so on his nights off we would hang out till the wee hours of the morning. My mom asked if I could limit this to only one night a week two at the most. I'm not realy young, but I do respect my moms wishes as I do live under her roof. Anyway I told my boyfriend that I couldn't hang out so late so much, we are both fine with it. He picked up some more shifts at work which is a good thing but I feel like I never see him anymore. Now he has less time off all he wants to do with his time off is hang out with his friends and sleep. I understand the need for friends and sleep but he sleeps all day so I dont get why he has started sleeping more at night too. I am also starting to feel jealous of his buddies it seems like they always get to see him while I get to see him for a coffee at eight in the morning on his way home from work. Is there anyway I could bring this up with him without making myself sound needy?
I am usually not needy so when we first started dating I told him to not bother talking to me everyday cause I didnt want either of us to become dependant because I notice more and more people becoming too dependant on eachother (something i've been taught doesnt work) However I am finding that I want to be more dependant on my boyfriend as I am getting closer to him emotionally.
Jems