I was recently diagnosed with an overactive bladder, and the precautions I have to take are the medication, which is Detrol, and I took it upon my self to get some pads. Anyhow I have been seeing someone for about 3 months now, and we had taken a trip to the mall and I had taken my meds for the day plus I wore a pad. On our way back to the car I felt a strong urge to pee, I knew I had my pad on, but I still I tried to restrain it, I could feel it going into the pad anyway. I thought it would be ok...then I felt it running down my legs, I looked down and it had shown through bigtime. My girlfriend looked down and then up at me and said did you just wet in your pants. I didnt know what to say................except that I couldnt help it I had to go real bad. She said why didnt you go while you were inside, I said I didnt need to then. She didnt say anything else on the way home and I havent heard from her in 3 weeks, what should I do. Is this going to be a big problem dating