hi im 17 i have been with my girlfriend for the last 2 years now . we have been having sex for about a year and a hath and i could last for more than hath a hour and then about 3 months ago we stoped having it so regulary and now we have sex about once every 2 weeks but over the last couple of times i have ejectied within 30 secands no lie i have tired to think of thinks to put my mind of the hole thing but it is starting to put me down and im starting to get imbariced about it . dose anyone know the reason for this please help
Hi there, thank you for posting your question. My answer is not intended as a substitute to visiting your own doctor but I hope I can be of some little help.
Premature ejaculation is complex and difficult to cover in a short piece like this. First of all, it is difficult to agree on a definition. The one I use is this: Premature ejaculation or PE, is ejaculating too quickly either during the sexual arousal phase before intercourse commences or within a few seconds after penetration.â Some texts use the much vaguer definition of âejaculating at a time either party engaged in sexual activity would not have wish for.â By either definition you have got a bit of PE
What doesât work to solve PE?
Most of the stuff on offer on the Internet is useless irrespective of the compelling way that it may be presented. This is a minefield of hoaxers, con-men and quacks. The exercises do not work. The numbing gels do not work. The restricting rings are painful and do not work. Only two things are of any use in resolving PE. One is a certain prescription medication. The other and perhaps best of all is behavioural therapy.
What does work to fix PE?
Behavioural therapy can be done through a Sex Therapist as a couple or can be learned at home through masturbation by yourself or having your partner do it for you.. The secret of success is to learn to recognise the "point of no return". This is the point during sexual arousal when you recognise the you are going to ejaculate if stimulation continues. You have to STOP all stimulation at that point, let things settle down and start to build up again. This is how you learn to control the timing of ejaculation which is the key.
Do not attempt intercourse again until you have at least started to gain some control.
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