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Q: Ejaculating too fast
asked by: dave170m on February 1st, 2009
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I posted in that huge PE thread but it got buried in talk about dietary supplements and chemistry stuff.

What I'm trying to find out if anyone else has my problem or knows someone who does, because I have run out of things to try. It's ejaculating so fast I can't even start to have sex because its over before I get even halfway hard. What happens is the "starting to orgasm" sensation is the same as the "starting to get hard" one, and is impossible to stop. I'm 29 and have tried to have sex twice only twice in my life. Both times I masterbated in the bathroom right before to make myself less sensitive, but that only made me cum while totally soft a few minutes later. Like, I couldn't feel much at all for a minute (one girl used her hand and the other her mouth), then suddenly did like a switch got flipped and started spurting without getting hard at all. Both freaked out about it and I never heard from them again.

The last girl was in November of 2002, so now I'm figuring I probably never will have sex, but figured asking around couldn't hurt. Like maybe it's a nerve "wiring" problem there is an operation for.
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Elixis
replied on February 2nd, 2009
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Yes, I saw your post in that thread. Try to read from page 30 and on. Some have the problem to that extent, some arent that extreme, its very mixed.

If you want me to save you a lot of time, take Zoloft. Took me 2 days after being on it to see the effects. Lasted 2 hours. That only lasted for 2 weeks though, then my body adapted to it.

If you don't prefer an anti-depressant and want to see major improvement from where you are now, research the thread. You'll thank us later...trust me.

I know it's 70 pages long, but that's up to you to determine how worthy it is of your time, with this type of problem.

Just trying to help!
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elgrande
replied on March 29th, 2009
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Hey
This is what I do, when I getting closer I take it out until I calm down and I do it again, I can get going like that the whole nite.
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Bean2pair
replied on April 29th, 2009
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Bean
Well my problem is not the premature ejaculation, but the fast ejaculation. So I'm able to make sex only for a minute, then I ejaculate...I've tried the "take out technique", but when I begin its quite the same, I can only make two or three pumps, then I have to take it out again. Is there a genuine medicine able to improve or delay the ejaculation, some kind of natural treatment or something.
Thanks
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dave170m
replied on May 6th, 2009
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Well, I got a perscription for an anti-depressant which was what you guys plus reading on the net said was the best thing, but after two months it didn't help. (Thanks for the idea anyway, Elixis) It actually made things worse in that now every time is like the second time was before after masterbating. Its like I'm almost numb for a minute or two, then suddenly the first and only thing I feel is starting to climax. And I mean without getting hard even a little first. Stopping with my hand after it begins doesn't "shut it off" either, I just finish spurting into the air without anything touching me.

Something I didn't mention before because size isn't supposed to matter is how small I am (and my testicals too). But now that I'm out of ideas it's the last thing I can think of. I'm only about 2 1/2 inches and really thin, and only a bump like a sewing thimble when soft. Since that size isn't even on the low end of the "size distribution by percentage of the population" chart on Wiki, it's why I originally wondered if it was a nerve problem related to underdevelopment in general. And now that the anti-depressant didn't work I'm back to wondering about it. I also read that being uncircumsized makes a guy a lot more sensitive too. Because I'm not, and the skin there is WAY longer than it needs to be. There's still a tightly closed inch long little tube of it hanging from the end even when I'm hard all the way. (I've made it there a few times) Stuff like that is what makes me think the inside could be as messed up as the outside.

Being so small It would be really embarassing to get circumsized (besides hurting a lot), but I will if it will help. I'm sure not having any sex now.
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