I'm just corious if when someone is pregnant and is taking birth control for the first time and started the same day they had sex unproteced and got pregnant would the birth control kill the baby or would it most likely have a problem when its older?
my friend told me that she stopped her bc for over a month then had unprotected sex and stared her bc that day trying to make it to where se wont get pregnant i dont know what to tell her! What do you think i should say?
Tell her to go to an OB/GYN and have the doctor discuss everything openly with her/him also. Trust me they have heard just about everything and understand. I also would have her check to make sure she did not contract anything from having unprotected sex. The doctor can help with that discussion and testing as well.
If you are a good friend you can go with her to hep make it an informative yet light hearted discussion with the OB/GYN.
(btw, IMO it sounds like she does not want ot have a baby. That 'should' be discussed with the doctor at the time of the visit and you can let the office know that this is something that need sot be talked about right away. On all counts.
Again, Good Luck,