Ok, so i'm 25 and my bf is 23. when we started having sex, everything was fine. no problems. so then he goes away for two weeks and comes back and is a mess! he is super religious about using condoms. so three nights in a row he loses it right in the middle of having sex. so i say lets just stop for a little while. maybe he's nervous? so we didn't have sex for a month and then we did one night without a condom and he was fine. so then the next day we go to have sex and i'm like whoa... condom and he puts it on and loses it! so i'm like ok that's the problem. so three days later we are back to the same problem, losing it. he seems very easily influenced by outside effects ie school, stress... etc. it really gets me down because it makes me feel like it's me although he assures me it's not. we've only been together two months, it's not supposed to be like this! what can i do? he says his mind wonders and he loses it... i'm not sure what all this means! someone please help me to help him. also, he has no problems with me jerking him off or getting head. ????