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Q: Going limp prior to sex

asked by: Tommyboy85 on March 11th, 2008

New User

I'm a 23 year old male. I started having sex around the age of 16 with no problems at all. Everything was great(multiple times a day). Last year I was with my girlfriend for 2 1/2 years. Beginning was very sexual active but as the relationship went on it became more and more infrequent.

After breaking up I quickly went for the "rebound". After being drunk I attempted having sex with a girl who I thought was very attractive. It lasted maybe 5 minutes before going limp. Since then I have not been able to maintain an erection and my penis often goes limp prior to sex even with girls I am very attracted to regardless of alcohol. I have attempted many times with 4 different girls all of which end in failure. What can I do? Any suggestions? New girl and I don't want the same thing to re-occur.

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sadfsdaf

replied on June 14th, 2009

New User

i don't know what to do about it but the same exact thing is happening to me. I used to be insatiable. I have never had this happen, and I thought I wanted to screw other girls the entire time I was with my ex. Now that we broke up I am doomed to be flaccid with all other girls.

ioka

replied on June 14th, 2009

Supporter

hi guys now i know im a woman but take it from my point of view. Because you can have sex now its not got the same excitement for you.
when with someone you love the passion is there and you knew how good it was to have sex together.
What you would be better doin is relax and let it happen as mother nature intended it to do. If you dwell on it the problem becomes phsycological for you and you worry, right!! if you forget about thinking you have a problem then things will go back to normal for you both.
This is only my opinion as a woman and supporter but if you don,t dismiss this problem then it will become one.
good luck

kdlee

replied on June 14th, 2009

Supporter

I agree with Ioka..You are stressing way too much..Don't think about gong limp but think about being strong..When you are with the right person and not drunk you will know what to do..It will happen and just let it..When a person is drunk the sex act is sloppy who would want to rememeber that anyway..

Thinking on the problem becomes the problem--let it go..Or, you could make it into a game-if you think it would be a problem let the female know you had a problem in the past and you dont want to disappoint..I can bet you she will take the challenge and you will be saluting again..

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