im 18 and i've been going out with my gf for 1 year now and i love her more than anything. a couple days ago she gave me a hand job for the first time, at first it was great and i didnt have any probems at all. but after 15 minutes or so i started gradually losing the erection and by about 30 min it was totally soft. but it was in a cold car and we were tired so we used that excuse. a couple days later we tried again in her bed and the same thing happened. it was so embarrasing!!! BUT, i did have a cold fever and a headache the day before the first time and i felt better until just after we gave up doing the first handjob
i find her very attractive and i have no problem getting an erection with her, its just when she starts stroking it i eventually lose the erection over time and i feel very sick a few minutes after we give up
i have no problem masturbating by myself and i dont feel sick at all afterwards, and i dont think shes doing anything wrong
please help me!!!!