Hmm. That's a good question. I would
think if it is bad and your skin is always
cracked it might slightly increase your
chances. After all, your skin acts a
protective barrier against all kinds of
stuff. Even little cracks and cuts can
let things in, although our bodies can
usually fight off most of what gets in.
In order to get HIV from shaking hands,
the other person would have to have HIV,
they would have to have a cut or something
on their hand, and that cut would have to
touch yours. So while it might be
possible, it is probably not too likely.
You could ask your doctor more about it.
You could always cover any larger cracks
with Band-Aids or liquid Band-Aid. You
could also try to avoid shaking hands if
it would not make things socially
awkward.
As for trying on clothes and shaving, you
could ask your doctor about that too. I
am not sure about this, but I don't think
HIV stays alive to infect another person
all that long once it is outside of the
body. According to this site dried blood
sounds pretty safe:
"HIV is not transmitted through surface
contact with dried blood. Incorrect
interpretation of conclusions drawn from
laboratory studies have unnecessarily
alarmed some people. To obtain data on the
survival of HIV, laboratory studies have
required the use of artificially high
concentrations of laboratory-grown virus.
Although these unnatural concentrations of
HIV can be kept alive for days or even
weeks under precisely controlled and
limited laboratory conditions, CDC studies
have shown that drying of even these high
concentrations of HIV reduces the amount
of infectious virus by 90 to 99 percent
within several hours. Since the HIV
concentrations used in laboratory studies
are much higher than those actually found
in blood or other specimens, drying of
HIV-infected human blood or other body
fluids reduces the theoretical risk of
environmental transmission to essentially
zero."
http://ehs.uk
y.edu/classes/bloodborne/bptrain.html