I feel the whole "BMI" crap is total BS. They should be going more off of body fat %, not some random number. There are a ton of people out there who eat VERY healthy, exercise, lift weights.. etc. But because they are more muscular than an average person, their BMI is going to possibly be higher than what is recommended. Even though, they are probably healthier than someone who doesn't eat much and is just skinny/fat, but the skinny/fat person will fit in their BMI standard... without actually being the healthy one. LAME! However, in that same sentence, being over weight/obese is extremely unhealthy. I have watched a lot of people I loved die because they were overweight their whole lives. Loving yourself shouldn't be about only you, it should also be about the people around you. Keeping yourself healthy to be around for your loved ones for a long time is important. As well as keeping the quality of your life good. No one should dislike or judge you because of your weight, but being "fat" is not a good thing for YOU. I agree that "BMI" is dumb, and we should use a different measuring system.. (I have been over my BMI when I was pretty close to contest ready for a figure show... so I know it isn't what they make it out to be.)But, even not going off of BMI you should be able to judge if you are over weight or not. Being over weight is pretty much the #1 killer of people...from disease it creates. So watching your weight is important. And I'm not trying to be rude, at all, but I think a lot of times people use the phrase "I love myself the way I am" is their cop out from doing something about their current situation. I don't think anyone wants to be over weight, they simply don't want to put in the effort it takes to fix it. And believe me, I know the effort it takes... so I don't blame them. And maybe it's not why you are saying it, but really think about it.