I had sex with my wife on 10th day of cycle(cycle started on 11th feb and 10th day of the cycle was 20th feb),unfortunately condom was torn.
She was supposed to have the cycle started on 11th March(may be 1 or 2 days before or after,normally her cycle is regular and it is 28 days).
She did not bleed on 11th march which was supposed to be her first day of the cycle. the main problem is between 10th day and 14th day when the most fertile day comes for the woman, difference is only for 4 days and What I know that sperm stays for 5 days in vagina and if ovulution occurs that it can be a pregnancy.
Now it has been almost 25 days(20th feb since the time we had sex and condom was torn and untill 14th march).
We do not want child now. Could you guide us whether is it too late(it is been almost 4 weeks(25 days) to terminate the early pregnancy if it is?
I know start of cycle varies for each woman and she may be late for some days also but I am thinking if somehow she is pregnant then what are the ways, is medical treatment by abortion pills option is good, I mean taking 2 mifepristone and misoprostol under doctor supervision is a good option or not? I am from India (Delhi) and I donot what are the options to terminate the early pregnancy, do any one of you have any idea about relaiable methods to terminate pregnancy in India (Delhi).
What do you think it has been 25 days since the time we had sex on 10th day and she wa supposed to have cycle started but she did not bleed on 11th march on which she was supposed to have her first day, should we wait for some more time(and if yes then how long should we wait) so that her cycle starts and then go for the pregnancy blood or urinte test.
could any one of you let me now from your experience that is medical treatment by abortion pills harmfull for woman health or is there any other complicacy or most important does it impact future pregnancy at all?
I am impatiently waiting for your reply kindly give me some detailed answer.
If she missed her period (you mentioned it should have been about 3 days ago) a pregnancy test would probably show negative or positive for pregnancy by now. That is the first thing you need to do. IF she is indeed pregnant, then you can get an abortion. 41/2 weeks is not too early. As for the types of abortion, I would recommend surgical over medical (pill). I don't have personal experience with a medical abortion, but I did stay with a good friend when she did hers. She had a lot of cramping and was very sick to her stomach as well. A surgical abortion is quick, and has MUCH less bleeding and cramping. I was back at work the same night I had mine.