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Q: Early Menopause?
asked by: Rubyone on March 30th, 2009
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I am 37 years old and about 6 weeks ago had to go to the doctors with stomach pains triggered by taking Ibuprofen for a week due to pain from dental treatment!!
The doctor prescribed me Omeprazole for 2 weeks thinking it could be ulcer symptoms or Helicobacter Pylori, within 2 days I began experiencing a sensation that I had food clogged in my gullett, I told the Doc and he said to carry on & that it was acid pushing up(never felt acid indegestion nor heart burn)!! It carried on so he prescribed stomach relaxents-at this point I had enough & stopped taking them.He made me feel a bit of a nuisance.
For the last few weeks it's still here, but I've began to have palpatations which I find scarey and upsetting and the odd hot flush-to which my partner BRAVELY suggested he thought I may be in early menopause!!!!! After taking a test from Boots to prove him wrong of course-It came back POSITIVE.
I have always had regular 4 wk periods, but the last few cycles have been delayed, I'm dry during intercourse, my nails are brittle, skin dull & I'm quite short tempered and experience terrible tiredness.
I think it is highly probabale it is early menopause, but the digestive thing worries me-has anyone else experienced this along with menopause also?
My Dad died in August, it is still very raw and people have suggested the digestive feeling could be anxiety and depression? Could the menopause have been triggered by
his death?
I have to say since thinking I have a valid reason for all these symptoms , I am starting to
feel slightly less anxious that it
is not something else-I have not stopped worrying which I think has made me feel so much worse, I have been thinking about dying alot, stupid I'm sure but also common a feeling of doom and gloom and dread I'm told?
Basically I'm just wondering if anyone else has experienced the digestive problem along with the menopause, to put my mind at rest.
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JavaMissus
replied on March 30th, 2009
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I have found that the more you think about possibly having a problem, the bigger it can get...You can manufacturer reasons in your mind...The panic attacks are very familiar with me...I have had them...Many of your problems I saw with my own Mother years ago...Then add a death to the trauma and you have created a small war within yourself...

Stress can bring on a late period...More worry about it can make it worse...Just living in the situation of life that we live in now is an added bonus...May as well stop thinking about dying as I did that for twenty years and wasted my time...My best suggestion is to live hard...Have the time of your life...IMO you beat the panic attacks by trying to forget about them...I just wish I had known this before I ended up at the emergency room three times so sure that I was having a heart attack...Let's face it...Doctors don't know how we are going to act through menopause because each of us is so very different...

Reading your post was like looking at a carbon copy of myself years ago...They even did that test at the hospital where they went down my throat to check my reflux flap...Put me half asleep and found nothing....All part of the panic of growing old...Now that I am here, I am having the time of my life....Now have fun and join me...

I send my best wishes to you,
Caroline
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hunters_momma
replied on April 4th, 2009
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Rubyone, I'm not as wise as you, as I am only 20 but do want to share with you a few things. Taking Ibuprofen for a while can indeed cause your stomach lining to get weak (hince the ulcers). As for the early menopause thing, it is possible to start menopause early. Alot of things can trigger that. My mom thinks she may be on the verge of early menopause, she's 42. She has been having unusual periods...sometimes she just spots and sometimes it's very very heavy. Her periods use to not be that way. They were normal as can be but for the past couple years she has been describing to me some of the changes she is going throw.

On another note, it might not be menopause at all. It could just be stress. Being really stressed out can throw your hormones and body ALL out of wack.

And also, the changes in you could be due to your body getting older. When your body gets older, it goes through changes as told to me by my mother after several conversations with her. She told me one time "When you get older, your body changes. It isn't the same ol' 20 or 25 year old that it use to be. When you are younger your body can tolerate more things".

Anyway, about the menopause: Has your doctor told you that your in menopause stages or is this something you suspect?

Wish you all the best and hope I could help!
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