im a female 38 yrs old. doctor told me im in early menopause. my boyfriend and i have been together for 5 years and NEVER use protection. we would love to have a baby. i have not had a period for about 2 months. i would like to know what can i do to see if i am even able to conceive a child. anybody have any suggestions, i mean is there a at home test i can take to find out