Hi. I have an embarrassing problem. But I really need advice.
My boyfriend and I have been together for around 4 years. However, for the past 2 years he has suffered from PE which, we think, has had a great impact on our sex life.
We are both young (early 20s), yet we feel like an old couple when it comes to sex.
He would literally have to persuade and nag at me to have sex with him because it would not last very long & I would hardly get anything out of it. It would also make him really down and frustrated. I would never show my frustration, I have stood by him all this time & told him that this problem did not matter and I still loved him.
However, recently he has told me that he no longer feels like he is even bothered about having sex with me. He told me that he didn't even feel bothered about when I told him we shouldnt have sex because his parents were in the house and I was embarrassed as they would have known why we left the room.
Im worried that this is the start of something worse. Even though he has said to me he still loves me so much and would never want to break up, I am worried. I feel the same and I love him so much.
Ive told him ways we could spice up our sex life but the problem is that now my new semester of university starts so I will be moving away from home while he is back at our home town meaning we will see each other less and less.
I need some advice! Thanks.