Hi Hannah:
You say you don't wan tot use a lubricatn. Does that mean you also don't want to use a arousal gel? An arousal gel is not a lubricant, which means you use very little and massaged on the right spots it will helpo you get the physical response of arousal, i.e. becoming wet. There are different kinds out there and some use plant pil which make oyu tingle (which some people love, but I hate). I found that an arousal gel I found on Amazon call Galaxis works great in getting me wet andit doesn't make things feel "different", "enhanced" or "unnatural" in any way