Precum as you are calling it contains sperm. If any bodily fluids were exchanged, and I mean if any of your fluids were near her vagina, then there is always a chance of getting your girlfriend pregnant. Hopefully this didn't happen. It's doubtful if there was no penatration, but it's always possible. BE CAREFUL. and if you plan of being sexually active have a condom handy.

Well I mean my pants were damp because my boxers were damp, but my pants got damp from the inside. What are the chances then? Are they high?

No, your chances are not high.

thanks for all your help, I've been stressing out lately.. my girlfriend is late on her period soo.. I'm kinda scared =S

Have you two talked about birth control with your partner?

Its just as much your responsibility to make sure you're being safe as it is hers.

Yes we've talked about it, but she really doesn't want to. But I want to be safe, so I told her that she should.

You should wear condoms. Every time.

But the thing that scares me is when we were sexual active my boxers got damp from the precum then my shorts got lightly damp from my boxers from the inside. So I just wanted to know if the risk of her getting pregnant is great. Because I tried penetrating but didn't get through, it only went about half an inch, and I had my boxers and shorts on while this happened.

Your sperm is not super. It cannot go through boxer shorts, jeans or her underwear either.

Why would you wear your boxers while trying to have sex? Don't do that. It is painful for her whether she says it or not.

GET CONDOMS!

If you had your boxers on and she had her underwear on...then I wouldn't be stressing out. If she is late for her period, AND you have had actual sexual intercourse you can always do a pregnancy test. If you haven't chances are her cycle may be a little off but I think what everyone is trying to say is it is HIGHLY unlikely she is pregnant. The dampness of your boxers isn't going to get her pregnant. Only if you ejaculated inside her is there going to be a high chance she is pregnant. AND yes birthcontrol is sooo important. Remember that you should wear condoms too. They are a wonderful way to prevent pregnancy and stop any STDs from occuring. Remember if you play with fire you're going to get burned. Just own up and be responsible. Take care.

Thanks guys for everything! Really appreciate your help!

hi im in the same situation and my gf is late i dont know wat to do she is like 13 days late and we are both very nervous

i honestly think she is stressed but how late is to late and is there anyway to tell thats not a pregnancy test?

Why would a pregnancy test be a problem?

That's pretty much the only way to tell if she's pregnant.

I suppose you could wait around 9 months and see if she goes into labor.

But taking a test is a lot less stressful.

my gf actually has her period recently but i was really wondering wat could make a girl be so late?

Especially when we're young, our cycles can sometimes be really irregular. It is even possible to not have a period for two or three months (even longer for some girls) if their periods are irregular. Some girls never have regular ones, others are like clockwork.

This does not mean she cannot get pregnant. In fact, it's worse because you have no way of knowing when she's ovulating. Irregular cycles make having unprotected sex so much more stressful. Use a condom and maybe even a second method, if you can, like the pill. It's about being safe, but it's also about having a less stressful sex life.

If you don't use protection, I can 100% guarantee you guys are going to have another scare and the next time she may actually be pregnant. Wouldn't you rather use a condom and be able to relax and enjoy being together? Or would you rather stress every time she's a couple of days late and end up driving a wedge between you? I know which I'd choose.

Good luck to both of you.

thank u so much!

Okay yeah so me and my girlfriend have the same problem. I was wearing boxers and she was naked and we were dry humping but afterwards I realized I had some pre-cum on the boxers. Is there any chance that my pre-cum (if it did have sperm) could get her pregnant without me penetrating and wearing boxers? Also this happened like last Tuesday and her cycle is coming up this week. Should I be worried? is there even a slight chance?

No, you're fine.