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Q: Drunk = Broken Friendship
asked by: Virdi on June 15th, 2009
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I need advice ... In February I hosted a game night at my house. My bestfriend at the time attended. We played trivia games and then moved on to drinking game. (bad idea) So as the night went on we were all drunk. So drunk that one of my girlfriends came on to me ... my bestfriend made out with her boyfriend. Needless to say all 3 of them drove off drunk to the couples house. My bestfriend's car was vandalized and keyed that same night at the couples house. Now we stopped talking because she thinks it was me that did this ... although she told she has no proof except that .. that same night I drove off drunk right after them but I cant remember where or how I even got back home. My boyfriend called them constantly while I was gone to see If I was with them. (do you see why she thinks it was me) We hadn't talked since then till the other night @ a get together from work. I expressed to her how much I hated us not talking and she expressed the same. I told her I couldn't remember If I did mess up her car but that I would try to help fix it. Truth is ... I have done some pretty messed up things while i've been drunk which she has witness. What should I do? ... Do you think our friendship will be the same or even better?
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susan862003
replied on June 15th, 2009
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It sounds like you have accepted that you could have been responsible for the damage, even if you can not remember doing it.

If the friendship is worth it, remember that friendships are built on trust and mutual respect. You will have to build up trust with her again.
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kdlee
replied on June 17th, 2009
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*Driving DRUNK--Oh yeah how much fun was that..You don't even remember where you were or what happened or how you got here..Do you realize that you driving and your friends driving while drunk or drinking you could have killed someone or even yourselves..Maybe you need to check your car to be sure there isn't any damage to it..I would bescared shi-----..For your sake and the strees sake-I honestly hope there is not a next time..

You admit you do horrible things sometimes when drunk-don't..If you can't have a couple drinks meaning one or two and stop you could be on the line to alcoholisum..It doesn't mean you have to drink daily or all the time..It just means you are one who better be careful or youwill be in big trouble..

My brother was an alcoholic amongst other things..I have pity but also anger as I know you can do better..
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upindust
replied on June 25th, 2009
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i can't feel much sympathy for you since you were driving while drunk,

I don't find risking the lives of innocent people funny or amusing at all.

one thing my mom made my sister and I promise would be that we'd never do that because she lost so many friends to it. She'd rather us spend the night at a guys house.
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Jinjer
replied on June 28th, 2009
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I have to agree... karma.
You were so drunk you don't even know if you could have done it or not. I have no pity or anger...just disgust. Be thankful it was just some paint that was lost and not the lives of a family when you or your drunk friends could have driven into their car while thinking only of yourselves.
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Virdi
replied on July 1st, 2009
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Geesh thanks for the info that I already ... I was only asking for advice on my friendship not a lesson on how I should not drunk drive. I now this ... I drove drunk .. get over it ... I'm not proud of it just wish you stuff with my question instead of judging me!!!! You yous talk like yours ANGELS ...ughhh.
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ServiceU
replied on July 6th, 2009
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when trust is lost through couples or friendships, it hard to get it back. she may always think in the back of her head that you did it and can she ever trust you.
if yall are good friends, then i think that time may heal those things.
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