Me and my bf have been together for 3 years now, lived together for almost a year and been engaged for 2 years and planning a wedding .Well I just found out the other week that he had an adult friend finder account since we had been togther after the first year. I got very upset cuz he was posting pictures of his thing and talking very dirty to these girls saying he wanted to met up. He claims he never met up with the girls and it was just for attention that he was getting he swears to it.He then deleted the account and gave me all his email passwords and told me that he wanted me to trust him and wanted to be with me and was going to stop and that if he needed counseling he would do whatever it takes to keep me around.I just dont know if its worth planning a wedding or even staying around it hurt me very much and its very hard to get over it and im tired of spying on his email and his phone.What to do??