I am Bi-sexual and when my girlfriend and I are having sex, she asks me afterwards if I came or not. The thing is, I dont actually know and I'm really embarresed about it. What can be the symptoms? I have a few things happen to me but I don't know if it's due to me cumming. Please help
Cumming is a slang term for orgasm. So she wants to know if you had an orgasm.
If you masturbate, you will know what an orgasm feels like. If you do not I can suggest that you start and figure out how your body and sexuality work.
An orgasm is when sexual tension builds and builds in your genitals while your clitoris, vulva and vagina is stimulated (rubbed, stroked, licked). Then all of a sudden it will 'explode' in waves of pleasure through your genitals and abdomen for a few seconds. Your breathing and heart rate will almost double just before an orgasm and you can loose control of your hips, legs, arms that may tremble and shake spontaneously.
You can also ask her, she will be able to explain to you how she feels during an orgasm and that might help you to recognize your own.
actually came or ejaculation in males is so different then females because mans can case pregnancy but girls can't . so ejaculation in guys is like semen and sperm ... but girls actually is different it's like cervical fluid and known colloquially as the squirting or gushing .