What about clitoral orgasm? Do you get enjoyment from that? I have heard other cases on this forum of women who simply do not have vaginal pleasure during sex.

I think you should focus on what you CAN get pleasure from: the clitoris. The fact that it "feels like nothing" when a guy does it sounds like a mental block to me. You're not allowing yourself to enjoy it.

Try this: Masturbate with your boyfriend there to the point where you're about to orgasm, and then guide his fingers to finish out. Maybe even go to the point where you're pushed totally over and just have him stimulate you through the shocks. Slowly work him into your sex life!

The good news for you is that at least you know you are capable of achieving orgasm!

I had also not experienced pleasure during penetration, and have had dozens of boyfriends and was married once. I found that I had to be very aroused to enjoy it. Now I do, my current (and hopefully forever) love is very large and I climax almost immediately when he penetrates me. I am in absolute heaven with him. He takes a long time with foreplay.

I never climaxed with oral either, until now. I have had a lot of lovers, but only my current boyfriend knows how to with a special "trick" he does. Perhaps have your boyfriend try it?? He can tease a little and then after "working" on you a while - put is lips around the tip of you clitoris and then move his tongue very quickly in a small motion on it. (not sure how he learned this, but he does read a lot ) It is amazing to me, that now at the age of 38, I'm finally enjoying sex!!

I wish you all the best of luck!

iv heard alot of girls say the exact same thing. just some rod going in and out.
communicate the best you can, tell him try to go deeper? let him watch you masturbate a few times... if the dude has any sense he can learn to find critical hit
points on your vagina, maybe. thats what i would do.

GOOD NEWS... YOUR NOT THE ONLY ONE
well I am a virgin but i have tried many toys and for some reason I get nothing out of it. I have the same problem actually but the thing is i have never had sex. I do not get any pleasure from fingering myself or using any toys... The only time I can orgasm is When I play with myself or get eaten (orally)
can some one help me?

I use to have the same problem,but with my husband i actually enjoy the sex, but i have never had an orgasm without clitoral stimulation. I have been trying to find ways to spice up our love life and in doing so i found a helpful site explaining g-spot stimulation and how to acieve an orgasm during intercourse by stimulating the g-spot. It has made me fell better and know that there is nothing wrong with me, just a lack of proper stimulation.

I also am the same way. I have had sex with different men and intercourse for me just feels like one going in and out. some times it hurts and some times it doesnt. I do like giving and receiving oral sex I also love dirty sex talk and to watch pornos but penetration does nothing for me at all. I masturbate myself all the time but never finger myself. I have lost relationships due to my lack of sexual crave. I too wish i could enjoy sex.