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Q: Does such girl exist?
asked by: jeffax on October 12th, 2008
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Hello, I'm 23 years old, MALE.
Recently I've been talking with a very old female friend of mine after a 1 year break, I was trying to get a: Date! (you guessed it)
Well we talked on the internet and on the phone, and told her I realy like her and I would like to meet her up in order to get to know her better. just a meeting! not a date. She said she will think about it (ugh ..... ). I said take your time.
after few days I asked her wether she considered thinking about my offer, she said no, and I accused her that she's not interested (which is obvious..) and she dont have to be afraid to say so and I will understand, but better saying it than leaving me hung up in the air like that, because I need to be with a woman right now, any kind of relationship!
Anyways, we talked.. and talked.. and got a bit angry.. and she finaly said that she's going into college and she wont have time for relationships of any kind, and I said atleast we will have fun in this couple of months before you get in college, doesnt neccessary mean we should stay together forever! and who knows maybe you will like me a lot to keep me even after u start college. and here she said it: "I'm not a guy, i'm a girl! I dont need sex".

I mean, fact that girls are a lot wilder and stronger than guys sexualy ... does such girl EVER exists?? I left her immediately after I said one word "Whatever".

and "sex" doesnt neccessary only mean the penetrating part, its everything around it too, kissing.. hugging.. oral play.. etc ... I wasn't even thinking about sex with that girl, just to be able to touch her and be with her and u know.. cuddle up and satisfy each other, among all the other stuff in a relationship.
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jeffax
replied on October 12th, 2008
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Oh and I also asked her if she have any sexual fantasies or urgies etc ... she said NO! and said that what satisfies her is that a guy tell her "i love you" and maybe kiss her on the cheeck and thats all about it.

I mean comeon.. romance is nice... but to forget our instincts?

I dont even know if i'm pissed off at this gal or just pitty her ... urghh!
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jeffax
replied on October 13th, 2008
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she doesn't have the instinct ...... O.o
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Mikolas
replied on October 14th, 2008
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Frankly, I think you scared her off man. Too many strong advances in a short period of time usually results in her thinking you are a creeper, women/people in general, don't like being put into awkward situations like that.

As for the libido thing, she is wrong when she implies that because she is a girl, she isn't into that. She may herself individually not have high sexual desires, but it is not as if women overall have lower interests in sex.

Lastly, please do not post in this forum if you are a female
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jeffax
replied on October 14th, 2008
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umm, I didn't say/ask her for a date, I just thought that after talking for a while on the phone and internet, it would be logical and good to just "meet" in order to continue knowing each other.

and this subject led to another conversation where I had to ask her if she even have the need to be with a man or the need for touch and be intimate, even if it seemed hard, for example when she told me she wont have time in college (its THERE where u get to meet other people and love and have sex and just.. its YOUR time) and it made me angry and told her to stop the excuses, if you dont like just say so and spare me ur crappy excuses, i will understand, and she still insisted that its not the problem, its just that if she want to be with me, it MUST be it, like the man of her dreams, her husband, and EVEN if i was him, she dont even think about sex or getting any oral pleasure or stuff like this, she said just a hug or a kiss on the cheek and "i love you" sentence is very much satisfying her, which is absolutely doesn't satisfy me at all, at ALL.

It felt like I was talking to a 15 years old girl while she's 20 now. I got realy, realy pissed off, and left her with just 1 word "WHATEVER" and never turned back. I dont only want sex in our relationship, but give me a f*****g break ... I could get more excitement from a barbie doll ...
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sebastian_flight
replied on October 15th, 2008
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How terrible, someone doesn't want to have sex with you! I would suggest she go to counseling to deal with her lack of libido if it's keeping her from sleeping with you, thus making you angry and frustrating your attemps at finding a date.

I doubt a Barbie would interest you much, but perhaps you should look into getting a RealDoll? It might keep you busy while you're waiting for the rest of the world to realize it revolves around you.
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jeffax
replied on October 15th, 2008
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yes, sebastian, thats exactly the case.
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jeffax
replied on October 16th, 2008
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WHERE ON EARTH did I say I'm looking for a sex partner ... I pointed out that she don't even want to meet to get to know each other better, because phoning/msn will not get us anywhere and I don't want to waste time on just another girl on the internet.

I asked her to say if she don't like me, and I will understand if she don't, but she kept saying all kinds of lame excuses which made me so mad, she's 20 years old, I don't expect her to be looking for mr. right now she's getting into college in a month, so I don't know what she wants or DON'T want.

She expected me to say that I am so deeply in love with her, then she would meet up with me, but I don't see how that's possible to happen on the internet. And I was honest with her and told her that I like her so far but I realy need to see her in order to move this to the next level. I realy don't see what is so sexual about that.

All this led me to think that she DON'T have any needs for an opposite sex partner, and I asked her that, she said No, then I asked her if she ever fantasize or think about men, she also said No, so that's the question, is there such a girl? and no she don't think about girls also.

for people who have a very bad reading comprehension, please refrain from posting a reply to this post.
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jeffax
replied on October 17th, 2008
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yes worrywart thanks, i never imagined there could be a person like that, but again, I knew a student back in high school he used to be the first in class, get highest marks, his only business was studying, and guess he was like that too, but still, weird O.o
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jeffax
replied on October 17th, 2008
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well, the thing, jasmine, I asked her to tell me if she is not interested in me, and that I will understand, it's not a big deal, we haven't started anything yet so it's not very that important. She still insisted on saying otherwise! and I don't believe that college/busy crap either ...

anyways she talked to me again and she said sorry and she was very upset about something and didn't mean half what she said, that kinda explains a little bit O.o but I think, afterall, she's the kind of girls who likes to... take a lot of time thinking about such things, even if they were minor.

Well, I won't rush in it.. I'll keep my options open untill she makes a move.
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jeffax
replied on October 17th, 2008
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I see..
well what I meant about "keeping my options open" is that I continue meeting and seeing other girls until she gives me an answer, then i'll decide with whom i should go with.
and thanks for the advice Wink
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