Hello, I'm 23 years old, MALE.
Recently I've been talking with a very old female friend of mine after a 1 year break, I was trying to get a: Date! (you guessed it)
Well we talked on the internet and on the phone, and told her I realy like her and I would like to meet her up in order to get to know her better. just a meeting! not a date. She said she will think about it (ugh ..... ). I said take your time.
after few days I asked her wether she considered thinking about my offer, she said no, and I accused her that she's not interested (which is obvious..) and she dont have to be afraid to say so and I will understand, but better saying it than leaving me hung up in the air like that, because I need to be with a woman right now, any kind of relationship!
Anyways, we talked.. and talked.. and got a bit angry.. and she finaly said that she's going into college and she wont have time for relationships of any kind, and I said atleast we will have fun in this couple of months before you get in college, doesnt neccessary mean we should stay together forever! and who knows maybe you will like me a lot to keep me even after u start college. and here she said it: "I'm not a guy, i'm a girl! I dont need sex".
I mean, fact that girls are a lot wilder and stronger than guys sexualy ... does such girl EVER exists?? I left her immediately after I said one word "Whatever".
and "sex" doesnt neccessary only mean the penetrating part, its everything around it too, kissing.. hugging.. oral play.. etc ... I wasn't even thinking about sex with that girl, just to be able to touch her and be with her and u know.. cuddle up and satisfy each other, among all the other stuff in a relationship.