Relationships and Marriage Forum - Does she still want me

OK here we go i am very confused on alot of issues dealing with my so called ex girlfriend. She broke up with me for reasons i don't really know other then she loves to be dependent. We dated for nine months the first 5 were so great for both of us then she of course changed. She says i smothered her. I am pretty sure i did to certain point but at the same time she didn't like to questioned about anything even if it was to just bring up normal converstaions. However she would ask the same type of questions. Anyways let me get back to my main question she broke with me however we went to lunch yesterday and i asked a few questions just to see where she was. like if i was sleeping with someone else would you be here at lunch with me her response was no and that she didn't want me to tell her if do. She let me go and tells me to let her go however she acts sometimes like she doesn't want me to let her go. We did have sex after lunch and i made the mistake by saying i love you after i dropped her off at home. She didn respond with i love you too but were not together. Is this a game if so how can i when. It is my fault for sleeping with again like that cause it didn't do anything to help me. Please let me know thanks.

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Pirategirll111

replied on April 5th, 2009

New User

ok i gotch ya

I think she might want more of a challange but nt so hard but with a itty bitty hints, like she lieks to be depandent she seems like she wants more of a challange. First off did she call you alot or contact you alot?or maybe she was never in to you, she slept with you maybe she wanetd to see your wild side Im getting kind lsot in you question though ill read it later on and see more

ServiceU

replied on May 1st, 2009

Supporter

you probably forced her to say it in a way. you said it to her and maybe she couldnt hurt your feelings by not saying anything back.
sometimes in relationships theres always one person that has stronger feelings than the other. for example you could be on cloud 9 while she's miserable as heck. give her space, dont sweat her, dont ask her any questions play the opposite role and i bet you this will stir up curiosity in her. some people lose interest, she mightve found someone else, or maybe she does need time away, maybe she's really stressed about something. maybe she don't mind hanging out with you and sleeping with you from time, to time. even though that sends mix messages to you. i would stop sleeping with her altogether.

realpromise

replied on May 24th, 2009

New User

same boat

i,m 45 aquarius, she's 36 sagittarius, everything in common, met after both our spouses died from skin cancer in 07, both good jobs, both sportscars, both rental units,
the list goes on.
started sleeping together december 08 and were together 4 months, apart 2 now, as of yesterday i called it quits with her cause she keeps pushing me away, and it hurts, i believe the cause is a perceptual filter of not trusting men, fathers, boyfriends etc. and i learned this too late to let her know i would never leave her, never hurt her.
now as much as i love her i have to let her go give her time and space in hopes that someday she can realize the promise there was in us being together, it was like all roads led to us, like it was our destiny to meet and fall in love, is there a chance for us?

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