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Q: Does she like me?
asked by: Mickey50 on August 21st, 2008
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Ok, I like one of my best friends... but before I ask her out, I need to know if she likes me...
She talks to me alot and she says im the only person that really listens to her. From what I know I am her ONLY guy friend (from what I know... the only friends I know she has is two other friends...)
My friends are telling me to go for it... but I cant without knowing if she likes me or not...
she introduces me to her friends, and she's nice to me... she laughed at a REALLY stupid joke I made up once... (extremely... stupid...) and she has hugged me once (end of a school year...).
She doesnt play with her hair or anything when im talking to get or around... idk if her feet face me either... (I never checked...).
I havnt gotten a friend to find out anything... thats my last resort. (before asking her)
And im really nervous too...
She has been to my house and says she had a REALLY good time... And also she talks to me alot... (alot... fast and alot...)
it follows alot of things I find on the internet... and she said she has liked my friends before... I really dont know if she is hinting anything or not.
Anyway I sit by her at Lunch alot. (I tried a test... I sat somewhere else for a long time during last year in school... but I didnt find anything happening... :/)
She gets annoyed when people say that we like eachother. So I really dont know. We have a lot in common... but im not positive enough to ask... and I dont know WHAT to ask. So if enough people would say go for it... then I would try... but idk what to do right at the moment.

Thanks for everyone who reads this and answers...
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mominashoe
replied on August 21st, 2008
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To me this it sounds like you are more just friends than anything else. I could be wrong, but maybe you should keep it the way it is. Talking fast and a lot could be her personality. If you try to take it the extra step, that might ruin your friendship. If you think it is worth it to wait for her, wait to see if she shows you signs of affection that "just friends" don't exhibit. So far, from her body language, all I can see is that you are only friends.
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Nancy89
replied on September 14th, 2008
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i agree going out can ruin friendship. But imagine all that doubt you will have on what might have happened if you asked her out. Friends can either make the best couples or end up as the worst <3

good luck ^^
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clairstickles
replied on September 14th, 2008
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Sounds like you're stuck in the friend zone. I think you would be best to do what you thought and get a friend to find out for you. I could be completely wrong Smile Also I don't think asking her out would ruin your friendship if she didn't like you that way, it would probably just make it awkward for a short while, but she'd get over it. I was in that situation once with a best friend and after about 2 weeks I got over it and he's still one of my best friends. Hope I helped.
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