Well I've only ever been with one partner. But I do know that there is such a thing as too big. Me and my bf fit perfectly together, and if he were any bigger I think it would be painful. I don't really think there's such a thing as too small either, as long as he knows how to work it.

I think that there is definately such a thing as too small. I once had a bf with an extremely small penis. It was so small, it was pretty much worthless. I agree that it can also be too big, but I'd rather have extra than not enough.

well with the partners ive been with, their size is normal, my husband's is also normal and it sometimes hurts inside i guess it hits my cervix or something. so i just wanted to know if there was more peasure with something bigger. i once heard of a lady that divoooooooorced her husband because he had it too big and wanted to get it all inside of her wooooooow, she was in pain. pretty rare reason to get divorced lol!!!

I only think size matters to a certain point (personally). It has to be a good enough size to feel it, but I really dont think big or huge is great. I was with a guy once who was really big, I was really suprised, and I thought the sex was gonna be great. I ended up mostly hating it and waiting for it to be over, because it was just uncomfortable.

I would say size doesn't "matter" (unless he is very small) but it does make a difference. I love my boyfriends large penis, though it's a little more difficult for me to perform oral - I don't mind - because even that turns me on knowing what it feels like inside me. FABULOUS!! I would hate to have less now that I've experienced more!

My ex boyfriend who i lost my virginity too was huge. He was ten inches. I thought that was too big. It did hurt and I don't even think it could fit all the way in. My boyfriend now is small. He is only about 4 1/2 to 5 inches. I must say that i love the sex better now than I did with my ex-bf. I never orgasmed with my ex. I have more of a sexual desire with my boyfriend now too. So i do believe that there is such thing as too big. Maybe too small if it was like 2 inches or something. My man is small now but he knows how to work it and get the job done.

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Most women don't orgasm from intercourse alone (they need clitoral stimulation) and the size of the penis doesn't matter as far as clitoral stimulation goes.

We're not talking just about orgasms, we're talking about if it feels good. Sex can feel good without orgasming from it.

Now, I've only slept with one guy so I guess I'm bad for advice, but I really think if he was significantly smaller or larger sex just wouldn't be as enjoyable. We fit perfectly. He's about 7", so about average. Hopefully this isn't too much info, but I, along with probably many other women, like deep penetration the most during sex, so if a guy was too small to get near my cervix I don't think I'd enjoy sex so much. And if he was too big and hit my cervix... well that'd just be painful. I hate to say it but to some girls, size matters.

I'm not sure how big my guy is, but I think for me it matter more about angle than how deep it goes or how big he is. Some angles I just love but if we move it slightly in another direction then it hurts so we need to try something else.

Though I've only been with one guy, I doubt it would really bother me one way or the other as long as they knew how to find spots feel good for the both of us.

Yeah, I agree. But you can always deal with size issues by changing position or angle or whatever, and make it feel good! I like average (5-5.5)

I lost my virginity to a very small guy and it was horrible, I didnt even feel it! As long as it is not that small, the size really does not matter. They just have to know how to use what they have

I agree with most ladies here. Very small you won't feel it. Average and larger is OK.

Most of my boyfriends have been average size but my current bf is very big so it took a while to get used to and sometimes he can't put it all inside me or it hurts.

i want to know what is small size mine is just 13 cm