I really need help.
Me and my ex broke up a few months ago and the break up was really hard. We were together for a year when we finally broke up. We said each other we loved each other all the time, we were always together. He would always stare me in my eyes and always call me, he just wanted to be around me all the time. He said i was the best girlfriend he every had and he never felt as much love with a girl as he did with me since his past girl friends treated him badly, cheated, or just didnt crae. He was a better person when he was with me, going to work, treating his mom better, comin in early instead of staying out late, trying to go back to school. He was the best boyfriend i ever had and I wasn't use to that so i pushed him away. One he finally got feed up he left and now it's been months and i miss him soooooo much. I got pregnang and said we should get rid of the baby because he wasn';t ready, and he wasn't. That hurt me so much, made me resent him. He treated me so bad, wouldnt answer my calls, or my text. Then jus spoke to me any kind of way. He invinted me to a party while we were apart and wehen i got there he was nice when his friends werent around but once they came around he treated me bad. He had lost all contact with me, so before I left college I called him and apologized for all that I did and went my way. He had deleted me from facebook and everything. He started drinking everyday, partying all the time, and smoking. Even lost his job now he cant find a new one. Hanging around the wrong people that are younger than him, everything just going badly for him. Then one day he sent mer an apology messgae on facebook and sent me a friend request. Everything was going good, he was speaking to me on his own and everything then once i started texting him he was distant again. He never told me why we broke til one day we had a long conversation about everything and he said i hurt him and treated him badly so thats y he treats me that way. I asked him if he wanted me to lose contact with him be keeps saying its my choice and he doesnt care anymore. Does he??? Will he evr coem back.
You need to ask him what it was you did or said that hurt him so badly because it sounds like he doesn't give a damn either way whether you keep contact or not and some people just say stuff like that so they don't hurt your feelings, he also sounds depressed.
Hi, from your post it doesnt seem like you did anything really bad to hurt him, i know you mentioned pushing him away but am sure if you just explained that to him then you might be in with a chance to get things back on track...good luck...jenny
when i told my ex i was leaving him, he told me "good riddens". he laer told me he only said that b/c he was hurt. i can pinpoint when a guy says something when they are hurt or frustrated and being a tough guy (trying to hide their true feelings).
i would have a conversation with him and get everything on the table. if he still have that attitude i would walk away.
you need to be with that man that tells you he wants you in his life.