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Q: Does he just want booty?
asked by: maggie420 on April 9th, 2009
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Hey all...immediate responses would be greatly appreciated...

So I took out a guy last night. He is from out of town because he travels the U.S. We had fun hanging out and talking. We ended up staying out until 1:30 a.m. After getting to know each other pretty well we noticed we have a lot in common and that we connect pretty well. He treated me like a real lady, was very nice and polite and fun. Too good to be true. All day today hes been telling me how special, wonderful, and amazing I am. Talking about everything he likes about me and how upset he is that he has to leave to soon. But today he left for another city only 45 mins from me. He keeps telling me he would love to see me again...over and over. He even offered to pay for my gas up there and my own hotel room if I didnt feel like driving back home. Nothing from what he tells me says that he just wants a one nighter...but who knows...he could be lying just to get some. What I need to know is how can I tell if he really wants to get to know me more...or if he is just hoping to score tonight if I do decide to make the trip? Help me
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DaterMillie
replied on April 10th, 2009
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Why are you taking HIM out?
Easy way to determine whether or not he's interested.

If he asks you out, drives to where you live to pick you up and pays for dinner, he's interested.

The more he invests in the relationship, the more he'll value it.
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maggie420
replied on April 10th, 2009
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I picked him up because like I said he travels, so his vehicle is in his home state. He drives around in a work van with a relative...so I took mine because he doesnt know this area and i was his "schouffer". Anyways...he bought everything and he says that he will pay for my gas if I make the drive. He wouldnt let me pay for anything...it was so nice. He told me that money isnt a problem he just really wants to spend one more night b4 he leaves town because it will be a couple months b4 he comes back in the area. He seems a little obsessive but told me that he's never met someone like me and thats why he's acting like this. I wish I knew what to think..
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ServiceU
replied on May 4th, 2009
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he seems like a nice enough guy, but let his obsessive attitude be a red flag to you. if you do see him make sure you have enough gas money to drive back, some guys arent dependable or reliable.
do you really want to pursue a relationship with someone who travels so much, where your not going to be able to see him often?
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thoumas
replied on May 29th, 2009
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ill tell you if he is "just interested in booty" answer is, probably not. he wouldnt pay for a hotel if he was. he would just ask you to stay in his guest bedroom or couch lol or on his bed. and if your not satisfied with that. then just with hold sex for a while if he is still interested then he isnt.
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