Do you want to smash the first dish or shall I? - How we fight!

Please!!!!

Tell me that there are other women out there who have reach that point in their relationship. Anymore, when we fight, we just start throwing stuff and breaking things. I mean, we don't do it every time there's an argument or fight, but when it gets bad, well, if he starts, I join in and vice-versa.
It used to be that I would only cry when we fought. If he broke something, he would leave. I would clean it up. NOT any more. I started doing it too. I want him to know that two can play that game!
I know this may be odd, but in my shoes, it is very practical. He doesn't hit me and never has. We just have our furniture flinging fights. LOL. Any similar situations?