I've been going through the same thing. I love men and everything about them along with the good and bad. Since i semi-experimented in college with a girl. I love watching lesbian porn and it really gets me hot and horny. Its amazing.
Took the words right out of my mouth. This is the exact same situation with me. I have never orgasmed thinking about men and can get off only thinking about or watching lesbian porn. I also cannot at all think about being in a relationship with a woman, only with a man. Sex is enjoyable with my boyfriend but mastrubating to lesbian porn is better. I consider myself bisexual in the way that lesbians turn me on but I want to be in a relationship with a man. Everyones different and you just have to except yourself the way you are
i agree i think you have bi tendacies that is all completely normal but i wouldnt act on it though wait for the right man to come along and sweep you off your feet.if you wanna play go have fun but becareful because of std.
i feel u..im 13 and i like BOYZ alot but just this year i strated liking girl and boyz at the same time...i wouldn't mind going out with a girl but i was wondering am i bi, bi curious, lebian or straight??? help me plaease
NO honey you are straight! EVERY woman likes lesbian porn regardless of orientation. Beautiful naked women are "safe" and "vulnerable" whereas seeing a powerful naked man instills fear and terror in people. Do not worry at all, this is normal. The reason is, the naked girls in porn are 500X times better looking than the naked men. There are no hot muscular tattooed hunks, only hot girls who are soft and pretty, so you are identifying with the women mentally. However, the guys in gay porn are hot, unlike straight porn. That's why many straight guys get confused when they get turned on watching gay guy/guy porn. Same reason it happens to us ladies. When you meet your next "hot" guy, you can watch some porn with him Relax and enjoy!
PrettyGirlonGuitar, There is actually a LOT of research (syudy after study came to the same conclusion) on this subject that was done in the last 10 years to figure out how sexual arousal works, to look for drugs that will work for arousal disorder and to study the effects of Viagra and Cialis on woman's sexual response cycles.
* Women are turned on equally by lesbian and hetero porn.
* Straight men are more turned on by lesbian porn.
* Gay men are more turned on by homosexual porn
"A study of sexual arousal patterns found that women, when viewing erotic films which show female-female, male-male and male-female sexual activity (oral sex or penetration), have patterns of arousal which do not match their declared sexual orientation as well as men's. That is, heterosexual and lesbian women's sexual arousal to erotic films do not differ significantly by the gender of the participants (male or female) or by the type of sexual activity (heterosexual or homosexual).
On the contrary, men's sexual arousal patterns tend to be more in line with their stated orientation, with heterosexual men showing more penis arousal to female-female sexual activity and less arousal to female-male and male-male sexual stimuli, and homosexual men being more aroused by films depicting male-male intercourse and less aroused by other stimuli."
For those of you that are not sure if you are bi or straight or lesbian need to figure it out while you are still young and haven't gotten married had kids etc. Having a relationship or sex or both with a women will not be the end of the world. Women are much more fluid with their sexuality then men are. Watching women porn and being turned on by women is a pretty good hint that you are probibly not straight. Sorry but think about it if a guy said the same things you ladies are saying or you caught your bf masterbating to guy on guy porn, Would you think he was straight???? NOPE! Good news though being a lesbian or being bi for women is much more accepted in society for women then it is men. Sorry guys we have to have at least a couple advantages over you:)
can you be gay-curious??? not just bi-curious???
well.. like most people, i have also been brought up to believe im straight... i have had more boys than anyone should.. but my 'relationships' never last the first few weeks/a month!!
the only time i thought i was in love was with a girl, she is straight.. n we r best friends now!!
so.. i dont know what i am!! n yes.. i cant stand men in a porn movie!! i love lesbian porn too...
okay I am a lesbian and I do not believe that you are one. I look at girls think of girls as "hot" etc. Alot of my lesbian friends watch gay guy porn but it does not change there prefrence in real life. The only way you are truly gay is to have intamacy not just sexual but companionship, etc. That you do not seem to have. Hope this helps.
I love lesbian porn, its my dark secret in my current relatioship with my bf. I masturbate to lesbian porn, i think aboit girls while toching myself, i look at lesbian porn every chance i get! I just love women but have never been with one, i want to so bad, these lesbians thoights have been in me since i was very young in elementary school. Its just hard im in a longterm relationship with him a nd he would never go for a threesom... Maybe someday ill live out this deep fantasy..
Ok im going to say that what u are is BI CURIOUS, it just means that your straight but your curious about the idea of possibly having sexual relations with another woman, and like you said just not acually dating one. Its acually very normal and very common for woman to feel this way even if they are straight. It doesnt mean that u are bi or lesbian, because if u were acually bi you would also want to date women which in this case you dont
I'm 30 years old and married to a wonderful man. We watch porn together. Sometimes we have a laugh at the cheesy ones. However we noticed that I'm more turned on during lesbian porn or threesomes where there are more women than men. I sometimes fantasize by it too. Does that make me bi-sexual?
I'm seriously racking my brain to figure out as I'm very happily married and have no intentions to be with a woman, yet experience with one as I'm very comfortable with my hubby. I only rather have it in my head and actually do it with someone. What does that make me?
Since I'm married and I do not want to 'cheat' on my hubby which I have no intention to do so whatsoever. Hubby's turned on by the same porn as me.
Hi Eskie713 and welcome to ehealth: Funny but my husband noticed the same thing about me...We were sitting at opposite ends of the circular sofa and I still wonder if he noticed me as I began to squirm from the lust that I felt as I watched the women do each other...I had only watched one other woman on woman porn movie before this, but this was hot...No, you are not a Lesbian...If you are then most of the women alive would have the same problem...We are women...Being this sex we are born with our most precious and erotic sexual parts hidden inside us...Watching another woman come to life with another woman who knows the places and ways to satisfy her, is a real turn on....It is also a great way to lose yourself in sexual foreplay if the need arises....I believe as you age you give yourself more permission to really let it all hang out...At least I have....Good luck and enjoy life...I have had a blast...Take care...
hey, ive always loved lesbian porn, its so much more erotic, that might be because im bisexual but even before i knew what my sexuality was i loved lesbians, the thought of getting down and dirty with a few girls turned me on sooo bad, it still does but this doesnt mean your abnormal and it certinaintly does not mean your a lesbian, just enjoy it!!!!
All of these people who responded are quite right. Fantasy is very separate from real life; turning one into a reality would probably be disappointing anyhow. And women are beautiful; it's easy to be turned on by beautiful things. Also- you're a woman. You can relate better to what's going on in the videos/pictures/whatever, and they tend to be much more sensual than hetero videos, which can just be too rough and not very attractive. Women are turned on more by sensuality than aggressiveness (it's been proven), and men more by aggressive, very direct imagery. Makes sense.
Btw, I'm the same way. I've accepted it, and my boyfriend is okay with it as long as I don't have the desire to act on it (which I definitely don't). It's okay, and perfectly normal. (:
You're perfectly normal. I consider myself a STRAIGHT GUY...but one time I did come across a Gay porn flick that was just too HOT to pass by. The guys were sooo HOT and passionate and It did turn me on!...but in the end I will only sleep with a woman. So you're totally fine.