maybe you're bi...as in you like both...

I thought that.. but.. I'd never want a girlfriend. and people who are bi.. they either have a boyfriend or a girlfriend. I just want a boyfriend.

It's just confusing to me because.. I want to know if I'm the only girl who gets turned on by lesbian porn?

I may be wrong but you do sound quite young and it seem to me that you enjoy sex vicariously, that is, by watching other people. You have chosen two women as it is perhaps easier for you to identify with them - it is one step up from masturbation.

I wouldn't worry about it - it all sounds normal enough to me.When you meet the right guy, you will want to fantasise about him!

Ok so, I was never this way until I married the man I am with now. I have had problems with his faithfullness. About two months after we got married I found a profile he had on a singles sex site where he said he was looking for a no strings attached sexual relationship and where it asked marrital status he put, doesn't matter. Also on the profile he put that he wanted to fullfill someones fantisies as well as having his fullfilled. This hurt me deeply and it has now been over a year and I know that my heart will never recover from this but, we have two small children together and I really love him so, I find myself getting into other women because, I want to please him and make him happy. Is this maybe an issue for you? Are you trying to please the men that like this?

You are definelty not the first girl to get turned on by lesbian porn.

No need to redefine your sexual preference, or even define yourself in the first place. You like whatever you like, who cares what its called right?

i like lesbian porn ive never been with a girl its crossed my mind but not yet anyways im married to a man for 5 years we are thinking of a three some but im to shy but thats why we are thinking about because i like to watch it

you might be bi or just like the idea

HI! I'm bugging out lately! i heard this article that if you are a girl with a shorter index finger than a ring finger than you are a lesbian! But I'm straight! I lloev my boyfriend very much, and yea while sometimes ive watched lesbian porn and be turned on , it's not my preference and I would never do that in reality... but I'm freaking out that like my fingers :tell the truth? is this insane??? I've started to notice every girls fingers and mine does seem shorter than theirs!

If you like guys, then you like guys. The shape or size of your fingers doesn't matter. And I think that it's if you're fingers are like that then you're more likely to be a lesbian, it doesn't mean you are

Do YOU think you're a lesbian?
If you don't fancy the idea of having a girlfriend then I doubt you're a lesbian.

I'd say you're curious. Maybe you want one fleeting encounter just to see what it's like, and maybe it will be great, or maybe it won't. Remember that fantasies don't always reflect what we want in real life, and sometimes it's better that way. I have those types of fantasies too, but I would never do it, I couldn't even imagine myself kissing another girl. It's just not for me, and if I did do it it would probably end up a big disappointment. Anyway, on ly you can decide if you're straight/bi/lesbian, but whatever you are it's ok to fantasize about different things.

In my opinion you're the only one that can tell wheather you're straight or lesbian. Just by watching women porn to me doesn't make you a lesbian, maybe you just like to see another woman who is prettier, sexier and attractive that's human nature to see things which are beautiful. Eg if you like to see people fishing doesn't mean you like fishing.

In lesbian porn...there is a lot of stimulation of what? THE VAGINA. Guess what...you have a vagina, and you get turned on by someone else turning on a vagina.

You're not a lesbian just because you like lesbian porn. Sometimes, that's all I watch!

yes, we have all been curious at one point or another, i find women attractive, i admire beauty no matter what the sex. i have thought sometimes 'if i were a guy, i would' to me it is natural, particularly at a young age, when you are not sure, the longer you leave it the more the curiosity grows

and finding lesbian porn a turn on isnt rare, i agree with sydney123456 here.

the fact of the matter is that we like the idea of being with a woman because we think that they would know our body and know what we like because we think it feels the same for them.

we have the feeling that they know the where why and what. that i think is what it boils down to and porn is good for stimulation and imagination but when it comesdown to the crunch, would i sleep with a woman-NO...

I am comfortable with my sexuality but understand respect and like gay people and bi people for who they are, what sex you like does not determin who you are...so dont worry about it, just do what feels rite for you

hi realitybytes.
i don't think you're a lesbian. i think that the reason you like lesbian porn is simply because you are a woman and you're watching women get off. you can associate and understand that. the fact that you're attracted to males tells me that you're not a lesbian. i have a great friend who IS a lesbian and we have had many conversations about this subject. she IS attracted to females...NOT males.

i think this is a distinguishing trait. for where you are in your life, you are a young woman, who is learning to love, admire, appreciate the feminine form and you're watching other females get off. no problem there. you can see different ways girls get off, and then you can probably apply most of that knowledge by yourself. you're just learning. it makes sense that it would turn you on.

i am sort of so-so on porn. sometimes i like it and sometimes i don't. i have had fantasies about women too, but i'm not gay. i love my b/f and i love having sex with a man. not to say that i never experimented, but i will guarantee you that i'm not gay...and i very seriously doubt that you are either.

just relax and have fun with where you are in your life.

jasmine

you just took the words out of my mouth, im 17 and the only difference is ive had sex with guys.. i dont have orgasms and i think its because i love guys except for in the sexual way im attracted to girls. i love having a boyfriend and kissing them and being with them but im only horny from girls, i find lesbian porn turns me on soo much and the penis turns me off tremendously, but i also could never have a girlfriend but i want to be with a girl sexually, and also the idea of kissing girls isnt even what i think about ever, just the vagina mostly so dont worry you are not the only one!

Everything you have said is me also down to a T. I'm 26. I never been with a woman but lesbian porn excites me. I would have to say that a very paticular kind of woman I find very attrative, maybe it's even jealousy. I have had the thought go through my head. If in the right situation I may even consider a threesome or being with a woman for a night.

But I ultimately love men. Maybe I'm bi-curouis, whatever you call it. But I could not picture hugging another woman every night. I love my boyfriends strong arms wrapping around me. I couldn't imagine it any other way. Although I have thought about the alternative. I guess I love my boyfriend to death but if we didn't work out and I just happened to bump into the right woman, MAYBE I would try it out, MAYBE.

K so I totally contricated myself in everything I said. I know.

alright... so I am not a lesbian BUT i am dating a girl. Up until last year i had been with guys my whole life. I've done everything sexual with a guy, but never LOVED it. The only thing i really enjoyed was a guy going down on me. anyway, I also liked watching girl porn and didnt understand why. or if I was turned on I would think of a girl rather than a guy. Turns out, i love everything with a girl. The sex is amazing and I am so happy. never did I see this coming. I was never attracte to girls, but it happened and i think if you are turned on by that you should try it out for yourself. Its better first hand

OK my young friend...I am going to put a post on for you...I was going to add "Why a Woman Stops Wanting Sex", but I am going to put on this one to help you out....I will have it on by Tuesday night...It will be on this thread that I have started...Kind of explains some things about life...We all may have walked your walk in life...If we didn't do it in reality, we did it in our minds....Hugs, Caroline ..

Just bcuz you like lesbian porn doesn't make you one. Lesbian porn turns me on too,but i love guys but i also see woman as very attractive. Though i think you're just turned on by the sensuality of the sex.