Ok so I was just curious about them.
Before I met my boyfriend I watched porn. It was just a curiosity thing I guess, and it helped me get off if I needed it. It was kinda a way to feed fantasies for me.
I never really liked the hardcore stuff, I found it was kinda ridiculous honestly, but I mainly didn't like it because of the facials.
I never understood what was so great about blowing your load onto a girls face, and anything with a 'facial' ending was just completely ridiculous to me.
I understand it's probably the best way to end a hardcore porn, considering most girls probably don't want the sperm inside them etc. But does it have to be the end to everything?
I don't want to seem like a porn critic or something, but don't you think they could spice it up a bit. Porn is all the same to an extend, we all know they are going to have sex, but does it have to be the same routine every time?
Anyway. Met my boyfriend, and thank god he completely agrees with me. I actually didn't even mention my feelings towards it, I just kinda ask him if he ever wanted to do that and he was like 'heck no, why would I want your face covered in my stuff, then I couldn't kiss you'.
He's gotten me a few times my accident obviously, I don't mind that, we just kinda laugh it off. Sex is all about getting a little messy anyway aha.
But I never understood the desire to want to cum all over a girls face. Or even like, finishing yourself off onto a girls face instead of just letting her finish you off. I'm sure she's pretty willing considering the situation you're in.
I guess I'm just wondering about other peoples experiences. Is this a common desire for men in serious relationships? Is there any girls out there who 'like' it? Or do you just do it because you're man likes it?
And if there are guys creeping around this thread feel free to comment too. I'm just curious to hear from people.
This is just my opinion, but I think its more of a dominance thing to make men feel powerful. Think about it, the guy who does this (1) is literally marking his territory and (2) has a partner submissive enough to allow it. I don't think it's a big deal. I had a boyfriend who liked to do it and I was fine with that. It got in my eye once and my eye was bloodshot for a few days, but other than that, it did not bother me. Plus, his thing was putting it on my mouth, not all over my forehead and cheeks... He liked to watch me slowly lick it off. Even though we was obviously spent, it gave him great pleasure to se me do that. I liked the powerful feeling it gave me so it was mutually satisfying.
never really thought of it that way. I see where you're coming from.
I know I like being dominated (I don't think my boyfriend really cares much, but when he shows dominance, he says it turns him on because I get so into it), but I still don't think I'd ever like a guy marking his territory on my face.
Although I guess now that I think about it, there was a few things I didn't think that i would like that I ended up fine with when knowing it turned my man on.
A few things I won't ever know if I like them until I try, but I'm content knowing that I probably won't be trying 'facials'.
I let my guy 'mark his territory' inside though. I imagine some guys would choose that over a facial aha
and I'd be super pissed if it got in my eye aha that must have been annoying.
Bonesx, I know what you mean. I love being submissive and for my guy to dominate me (he likes being dominant too, although we're both switches) and allowing my guy to do what he likes with me and "mark his territory" as you put it, however I wouldn't let him give me a facial.
I don't mind him ejaculating on my breasts, however it feels a little strange, and if I give him oral I'll usually swallow, despite the fact it makes me gag. However I really don't like the idea of facials, and to be honest, they completely turn me off. I have a phobia of things being put on or over my face (I cannot use facemasks etc because of it and I don't like the fact it could go in my eyes) so as a result I wouldn't be able to handle being given a facial and the idea quite frankly squicks me out.
If its your thing then go for it, but I personally don't like the idea.
I started doing it only because the guy I am involved with is realllllllllly into giving facials. That is his thing. But after a while I must say I really enjoy it. I would much rather it be on my face then me swallowing it.
i am 30ish male, married 7 years, 3 kids, i find myself wondering out of of bed after being denied sex 26 days out of every month. Sex always is on her terms. oral? once a year as lube. i fantasize about having more sex maybe even complete oral sex. advise?
Jamz- I was married 9 years and I'm in my 30's with a child and now divorced but I can say that while married I rejected my ex bc I was depressed in our marriage. I think you should sit down with your wife and express how you feel and maybe bringing up spicier ideas for sex. Ex role play, public things etc. Also maybe ask her if your doing something wrong to get this rejection and how can you fix it. Me and my ex didn't have this communication. Good luck!
On my breasts, tummy or ass and back is OK (depending on oral, missionary or doggy style). On my face and hair, not so much. I hate the red dragon eyes and stinging and washing it out of my hair when we are supposed to cuddle.
I am empowered that I can make him dump his load for me with a few hand strokes.
I do however prefer to feel it inside me during intercourse. Outside only when I cannot deal with the dripping the next day
I definitely think it's a dominance thing. It's also something 'nice' girls shouldn't like and so has a taboo attached to it somewhat.
I'm going to be the odd one out and say, yes, I enjoy it and I can actually get very turned on by it. I do realise I am in a tiny minority by genuinely liking it, as opposed to just letting him do it because he likes it.
The way I look at it, if my guy wants to cum on my face, I must have a pretty face, right? So that makes me feel desirable, the fact that only 'bad, dirty' girls do it turns me on, so when it comes to that magic moment for him to shoot his load and I tell him I want him to cum on my face, it turns it up a notch for him which in turn gets me going more, so it works for both of us. Does that make sense??
I'm here researching this subject seriously -- well as seriously as possible.
I'm married. My wife gives me oral when I ask, (most days,) but she refuses to answer questions, she's against me writing the book I'm planning. We've been married more than 30 years, and neither of us are going anywhere. I am trying to write a book, and I have a couple of questions...
Here's the background...
In college I decided that I liked oral sex above penis/vaginal sex and so that's all I did with women I dated. I tried to be gentle about it when I told them, if they didn't want to continue the date I always got them home whenever they wanted, if they just wanted to go to dinner or see a movie I tried to be the best short-term bf I could be.
But when it came to oral sex, all I was up for was for the girl to swallow. Again, if she didn't want to, that was okay, but I didn't ask her out again. (I've never forced any woman to do anthing.)
I thought when I started this policy I would have fewer dates. Nope. I was mobbed, a couple of women who had heard about me asked me out. (Women talk, and even though I was reviled by some, many women enjoyed going out knowing that we would neck and then they would suck me, usually a few times and then I would take them home.)
And I don't apoligize for being selfish, I always made certain that the lady knew about me.
After college I moved back to Miami and dated a nurse. With two nurses all I did was take them out for dinner, (the first had left the country after her schooling ended, she introduced me to a friend of her's, I wasn't a party to their conversation,) the beach and such, the usual dating stuff, and also to my apartment and do oral. Sometimes slow, but sometimes I face-had sex with them (put a pillow or two behind them, with them sitting up slightly, and sat on my knees and just pumped until I came.)
QUESTION: Is this painful or uncomfortable? And is the comfort or lack of comfort age related. I did this when I was under 35; although my wife let me do this to her many times, today my wife say's it's painful, we do it the more usual way, she get's on her knees.
So, my question: Is oral sex painful? I'm only talking about women who enjoy it, no others need apply. But for women who enjoy it and swallow, is rapidity an issue? Is age an issue?
Hi, i for one love it when a guy dumps his load on my face, lips etc. When i'm having sex with a guy and another girl, I also love to watch my guy jack off on her vagina, face and then lick it off. Most of my g-friends also enjoy it. It is sooo much fun to play, and lick the cum off, it is the perfect end to a great night of sex!
Hi, I'm a 35 year old guy who's 'thing' is to cum on a girl's face. I'm lucky that nearly all the girls I've been with have welcomed it (and some of them loved it)
I have to say that the girl above that best seems to understand my point of view is Ankle_Bangle_Emma
To me, it's not any form of disrespect to a woman at all - far from it. As Emma says, it shows you have a pretty face and that you'd go out of your way to please me.
If you turn to your guy and say 'please honey, can you cum on my face?' you're instantly making him feel empowered, and being a bit naughty. In Emma's words you're "turning it up a notch" which (if it excites your guy) will then hopefully excite you too.
Remember that sex is not just about genital stimulation, but much more about what goes on in two people's minds
That's why I'm as keen to discover a girl's thing as much as I am for her to find out mine.
The acts that are in porn are there because that is what people want to see. Women purchase/rent porn like 60% to guys 40%. So, maybe you are uncomfortable with it, but keep in mind that it is what people want to see en mass. It would be a ridiculous business model to make people watch what they were turned off by. The sooner you accept that facials are sexy, and are what most people across the world want to see the happier you will be with sex. Having problems with what turns men on aren't going to be earning you any brownie points with the guys. Stop seeing what turns them on as some sort of action against women. We are the complimentary sex, not opposite. Facials are more popular then you think, and cross all kinds of cultural gaps. Sorry that men find faces so attractive.
I'm early 40's, and I also wondered with a scrunched up face why porn seemed to be the same on facials. I'm as kinky as the next and was curious but I by no means thought I would find someone that asked for it. I just figured since 80's porn was about squirting it on the bush, 90's was on the tits and sometimes chin, and 00's was taking it to the face to up the excitement ante. I have thought it was a little degrading.
My present girlfriend loves to give me oral...A LOT! She enjoys and prefers swallowing as well, often she has orgasms while performing on me, no objections from me. Lately she has brought up the subject of facials and asked if I liked them. I was honest and said GET ON YOUR KNEES AND OPEN WIDE! Just kidding....I said I didn't have experience with it, so she said let's try. It was sexy, exciting, for both of us, she liked it I think because she gets to watch me stroke myself in front of her and see all my muscles clench up and the surprise of when its coming out. She doesn't like it in the eyes of course so we bought a cheap pair of sexy librarian glasses she wears. Most of the time she strokes me to a finish on her face...now that I think of it...I think she likes it better than me! Hmm...
Anyway, if done correctly in moderation and for the right reasons I think most will find it sexy and enjoyable.
I love to explode inside my girlfriend. Its so personal and even better when she really thanks me for it. That is a major turn on, to know she really wanted it and to know I'm still inside her the next day at work. We've had sexy phone calls about it the next day where she tells me she can't wait to do it again. Isn't this a form of dominanace, me marking my territory inside her? But we both love that so its cool.
It's kind of the same with facials. It's not the turn on if she doesn't want to do it and the whole sex experience then lacks that spice if it ends with no's. I absolutely love blowing my load all over her face only if she is getting off on me doing that too. Then I love her to tell me how well I've done and how much she likes it. Not fake talk, thats no good at all. Has to be pure honesty. Then I like to watch her wash her face or have a shower together before coming back to bed to cuddle and discuss and giggle about what we've done, bits we both liked.
I would have to say that most of all I like to get inside my girlfriends mind and understand and share in what really turned and turns her on and vice versa. Now that is dominance and submission working in perfect harmony! Coming from a place of mutual understanding and connection. Submission does not suggest weakness if the dominant party understands the pleasure that the submissive party gets and vice versa. Of course there is a fine line, but you can balance on it easier if you work together. Ying to her Yang.
I am a guy and I have also wondered why a guy would like to shoot on girls face when shooting inside her is so pleasing and calming? I love to shoot inside her rather than on her.
How can shooting on a woman's face be more dominating than shooting inside her? When a girl agrees to have sex with a guy she is already accepting to let him enter into her intimate parts, so what other dominance would a guy requires showing? Most women like men to dominate in bed and just by the sheer nature of sex the male mounts the female and dominates her and she is recessive surrendering to him to receive his penis in her. So I think these are just excuses to justify this trash. Actually by doing it you are only degrading the women you love.