the question you asked is do you have hiv.
the only way you can find out is if you get tested by your doctor. you can go to a free clinic, and they have test that tells you the results in 15 minutes.
if a person has hsv 2, the best way in keeping yourself from getting it is using condoms.
i used condoms for 4 1/2 years with my live in (now ex b/f. so it can be done.
in your situation you shouldve always had condoms on you, or around you.
are you 100% sure you contracted hsv2 from your ex?
have you had any sores on your genital area?