Hun, I am so sorry about your situation. Sadly, no one but you can decide ultimately on what to do. Adoption is a viable option, as well as termination, but you have to make that decision. The best thing you can do is write up a list of the pros and cons of each decision you could make (parenting, adoption, abortion) and make an informed decision based upon which choice would best suit you, your morals, your situation, etc. Don't let anyone else try to tell you what to do. It is your choice and even though the man doesn't want you to keep it, it is still your decision. Best of luck to you, whatever you decide.