I had my distal pancreatectomy with splenectomy on 7/30/10, and was hospitalized four more times after surgery for complications--mostly due to fistula and abscess. My last time in I went into septic shock and they drained almost 350cc of horrible goop out of my abdomen. If you read up on these procedures, the complications occur in 60% or more of cases. So, you're not experiencing anything out of the ordinary, but frightening nonetheless.
It has been over a year and a half, and while I am much better, I still suffer from abdominal cramping, weird bowel movements and a little bit of nausea at times. I have taken replacement enzymes (Creon) in various doses, and that seems to help a little. Still, no one can tell me conclusively whether I'll ever feel like my "old" self.
The thing that I keep in mind is that regardless of the minor inconveniences I have to bear, I have been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and I am alive. Even though my type, non functioning neuroendocrine, is much rarer and follows a much more indolent course even if it does recur. I have done significant research and have found that even patients with recurring or metastatic disease can live a long time. It's not the death sentence that adenocarcinoma tends to be. Still, there have been patients with adeno who have also lived much longer than the odds.
My best advice is this: BE POSITIVE, and be your own advocate. Ask questions, do research; the internet has a wealth of information that can make you better informed. Question and or ask for clear explanations about everything. Join a group like PANCAN and Gilda's Club so that you can get all the support you can get, even beyond family members and close friends.
My doctor tells me that he doesn't like to talk in terms of cure, but he doesn't tell me not to go out there and live. Believe me, everyday is precious and there is always someone else out there less fortunate.
Good luck to all of you!
Bob
Fort Lauderdale, Florida