I think you are right Homer. I feel ethically uneasy about not disclosing my status to anyone and as you said, I could be found out anyway through a pre-op blood test. That worries me from a legal perspective too, but another problem I have is a fiscal one - not a lot of money! Bulgaria is the best option for me, but I seriously wonder if any doctor would take my case on. What is a man to do?! I thank you for your thoughts on this Homer, and all the best to you x