I am going to have fun here, but I need a minute to spell check! Was your wife a virgin as well and I know with "love' and all the crazy emotions that are involved it may be hard to talk about, but if your wife has been sexually active before, was there ever a problem with pain or discomfort? Are you investing a lot of time on foreplay? I am not going to just say, more foreplay as I am a woman who hates it, but I am guessing that you are trying to do everything that you think a woman wants which would include a lot of fingering and rubbing prior to penetration and I think you may have an air pressure problem! I am serious here and even though it sounds like I am joking or making fun, I am not. Take a shampoo bottle, full or empty and blow as much air as you can into it and then try to fill up the empty space with water and no water will enter. If you are fingering, having oral sex, or even if your wife should elevate her pelvis while you guys are just kissing, her vagina will act like a vacuum- here in entering the lovely vaginal toot which if you haven't experienced, will eventually happen the more creative you guys get and will be a nice bonding moment for the both of you. What I am saying is, if your pull out and re enter fixes the problem, you are pulling the excess are out when you pull out and are actually penetrating her vagina again before the action that allows the air to enter in the first place reoccurs. More to come and no there aren�t any puns here.