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Q: desperate to get pregnant.
asked by: ShellyBaby on June 21st, 2008
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i have recently gotten my iud removed so that me and my husband can try and consive but am wondering how long it will take for it to happen? we want to get pregnant asap! its hard to go by when my last period was an when it is because its never been normal my whole life so if anyone can help PLEASE!!!! let me know. we are very desperate!!!
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ShellyBaby
replied on June 21st, 2008
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HELP!!!!!!PLEASE!!!!!!
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dazago
replied on May 23rd, 2009
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Well to start with I'm not sure exactly what a iud is. So that may or may not play a factor in trying to conceive. But here are two suggestions which you may or may not like.
1)Have more sex. Since you have an irregular period, I'm assuming, that you are not sure when you ovulate. But if you can figure that out then have even more sex around that time. By having more intercourse you are more likely to conceive.
2)May want to try in vitro fertilization. Which is basically they take an some eggs and some sperm and fertilize the eggs in the lab and then replace them into the womb and hope for attachment to the uterus wall.
But if the second option is something you don't want to do and you're still having issues with option 1. You may want to check how active his semen is and other things such as if the uterus and vaginal juices are too acidic/basic for the sperm to live in.
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RabiesKitten
replied on July 6th, 2009
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too much sex can actually decrease your chances of conceiving. I know that sounds bizarre, but I just wanted to let you know that the person who who answered your question before me really doesn't know what he or she is talking about.
Talk to your doctor and ask about taking certain fertility drugs that may increase the chances of getting pregnant.
Good luck to the both of you =)
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isaywhatisay
replied on July 6th, 2009
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ok, first relax, and have fun trying. second have sex every other day, not everyday. I know it seems like you amp up your chances of conceiving by having sex everyday but really, his guys need some time to re-feul, if you know what i mean. Also get in good health maybe take a prenatal pill everyday to ensure your body has enough nutrients to even supply the baby with and eat healthier.... if your a drinker try cutting down on that to, cause alcohol can accually alter your period making it harder to track.. and since you mentioned your monthly visit from aunt flo is never accuarate and bouncy, try getting an ovulation kit to see when you are most fertile.... also have your husband practice good health, that means hes gotta cut down on the drinks too! and if your a smoker that can also lower your fertility risk....i hope some of this helps.... there are so many things that can interfere with conseption, so relax and take your time, your still young and you have plenty of time... so have fun and good luck!
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Ersid
replied on July 31st, 2009
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U should not stress for no reason.cause stress doesn't help u get pregnant even if u have nothing at all(u're halthy,cause I don't know what means iud,anyway).
Good luck...enjoy your life before...U are more important and your health
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josieR
replied on July 31st, 2009
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RabiesKitten wrote:

...Talk to your doctor and ask about taking certain fertility drugs that may increase the chances of getting pregnant...




you might want to give it some time before you do that. fertility drugs can increase your chances of getting pregnant with twins... or more.

coming off BC, it will usually take a couple months or longer for the body to regulate itself and I don't see why it would be different for an IUD.
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mommyandwifey1211
replied on August 13th, 2009
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1. dont stress about it,that will make it a lot harder to concieve!

2. it takes the average couple 2 yr to get pregnant[[i was told that by my obgyn]]

3. my friend had her iud taken out and 3 months later her and her husband we're pregnant so it all depends on the couple.

4. make sure you have a gyno check up im not sure if they do that when they take out an iud or not ive never been on one but if they dont get one to make sure everthing is normal.

just remember practice makes pregnant and practice is fun
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ashwil88
replied on August 21st, 2009
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hi best advice ever i was the same way u were but the depo shot made it hard for me when was younger but best advice i can give is after he ejaculates in you lay on your back and sit your legs up on the bed leave thm there for 5 mins just resting and sitting as if u were in a chair do this at least three times a week and ur chances of gettin pregnant r high i did it n i conceived that same month and found out in feb that i was pregnant i was five weeks...or as gross as it sounds this works also when ur cycle first comes on have sex then and dependin on how many days it stays on have sex at least if it stays on four days three days out the four and if its five either three or four but have sex at beginnin and end of ur cycle that will help as well
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TrishaG
replied on August 24th, 2009
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I'm sure my husband would love to try to get 'you' pregnant as this seems to be one of his stupid fantasies...but I'd never allow him to do that so don't worry. Smile


Like other replies have stated before mine, lay on your back with something under your bottom elevating your hips for a while. Try to have an orgasm AFTER he has ejaculated inside you - not before.
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sydneysmommy
replied on September 28th, 2009
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me and my husband were trying to have a baby so i went of my pills and it took 4 months but when i tried dome different things the last month we got pregent that one i don't know if it was the tring of the things but we would have sex with him on top because there was less chance of sperm coming out when he would pull out and when he pulls out try doing a kegel and holing it in till he is all the way out then lay on the bed put a pillow under your hips and relax also try and get him to get you off after hes cum cus then your dipping your cervix down in the sperm when you get off which helps increase your chance we didn't have sex on a everyday or every other day thing we didn't it when we wanted it didn't matter if it was more than once a day or we skipped a couple and i think that that helped a lot that we didst stick to any kind of routine we just didn't it when it felt right to us have fun doing it oh yeah my sister says she got pregent in doggie style doing the same kegel exercise after and the laying wit her head down and butt still up after still in the position but her head and cheast on the bed for about 5 minutes and it worked for her
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