I love your description Mabel.
I'm also on my second pregnancy and I was induced last time so my contractions were really painful and I was quick to ask for an epidural. A month after I had my daughter, I became preggo again with my son who's due in 7 more weeks, (just 2 days after his sister turns 10 months). With the preganancies being so close my risk of preterm labor is at 32% and I think I've been feeling labor contractions. I'm so busy with my daughter, but I have rehydrated myself profusely, I'm drinking 84 or more ounces of water a day and I'm still getting menstrual like cramps in my abdomen and back. I've emptied my bowels like 3 times since yesterday, so I'm not constipated or gassy. I'm constantly laying down and sitting, I play with my daughter on my bed or on the couch mostly, and only get up to feed her, change her, bathe her or for myself. Overall, I've been on a self-imposed bed rest. Even with all these pointing towards contractions, my son, he still moves, although not as often...I'm confused.
I don't want to go to the hospital because I don't want to have my fiance come and then find out I'm not going into labor anytime soon. He is the sole provider right now, and he needs as much down time as he can get. When he's not at work he's home with me helping me take care of Sarah and myself.