|Rosie H wrote:|
|Wow thank you so much for this. I have been sharing my views and issues about my hubby too and I have never been so confused in my life. You realize that you and him are the only ones that really know whats going on. Its damaging to start getting 5 different views on things...pretty soon you dont know whats real
My relationship is starting over now. My hubby and I seperated for about 2 months.
So from this point the most solid thing we have is unconditional love,dedication,and forgiveness. But our faith in the Lord is whats keeping us together. Complete and utter faith that we are meant to walk this life together.
|i think my boyfriend and i have a pretty good relationship. and i think what makes it a good one, is that we are open with one another, we tell each other whats on our mind and fight sometimes too[not everyday].
i think having a fight once in a while is a good thing because it releases that frustration that is building in your body, and shows that your really not afraid to say how you feel.
we always resolve a conflict that we have, and we learn from one an other too.
i also feel that what makes our relationship a good one is that we're not afraid to show who we really are, and we accept each other for how we are. if you have to change the way you are to please another person, they are not worth being with you. they should accept you as you come rather than change you.
my boyfriend accepts me the way i am, and i accrpt him.
we have time apart, he sees his friends, i see my parents with our son or see my best friend for a movie or dinner[without the baby]
and we see friends together and enjoy doing pretty much the same things and activities.
we do things together and apart to have space and not be too clingy. i think it makes our relationship that much stronger and healthier.
we are honest and up front.
and we do things as a team with our new family.
|caroline that sounds like me and my boyfriend.
we like the same things, enjoy doing things together, and both rather play sports rather than watch them, and he loves westerns just like his dad, and i really dont mind watching them, i end up enjoying them in the end!
we never force each other to do something we dont want to do.
and in a way, he has helped me push myself farther to do some things i would have never thought of doing!
we're a great team and match, and i really feel like fate brought us together.