i am 35, i started the shot 2 years ago and loved it i thought. i had been on bc since i was 16 because of heavy periods, and my ex complained our sex life was not good, so i thought it was the hormones, i finally settled on the shot, i loved it, no periods, little cramping at at that time of the month, but nothing big. well we got divorced a year ago, i got a shot right as he left in feb. 08 and did not repeat the next, i had no use for sex or interest, after it got out of my system i felt amazing and wanted to be with someone, it took about 6months to a year, i thought it was just from the divorce and a new life, well i started the shot back in march and i feel like crap, my body hurts, my head hurts (had not had a headache in forever)and i kind of lost my desire,my period is jacked up and i cramp all the time, no moisture, my neck and my moods are bad really bad, which i didn't feel this way as much the first time ,but i notice stuff i didn't before that must of been connected to the shot. before i restarted the shot i felt like i was 20 something again with no kids, lol. the only thing that has changed in the last 2 months is the shot. so i would run from this and i will not be going back for my shot and hope its gone out of my system soon.. i would rather deal with my period and know what i can count on.